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looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
Is it Spring Fever or COVID ? - 11/29/2021

i don't know why, but for some reason my Desire for Dick seems to have spiked in the last few days. Maybe it is due to the singing birds, blooming flowers, and more hours of daylight here in the Northern Hemisphere. Or maybe it is some form of Sexual Cabin Fever induced by the covid mandated Social Distancing. Or maybe it is a combination of the two. Whatever the reason(s) my compulsion for ...

28 response(s), 91 votes
chcds 46 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Should a sissie show his face in a profile - 11/1/2021

Should a sissie show his in profile picture yes or no

7 response(s), 24 votes
luvtobind2 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do "TIPS" work? - 11/1/2021

Been looking around on the site and can't find any info on how the "TIPS" feature works? If anyone has a clue, please share. <br><br> Thanks!

15 response(s), 55 votes
prestonsub16 32 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
lockdown - 11/1/2021

how's everyone dealing with the lockdown in the UK? I wanted try a little confinement but this isn't what I had in mind!

14 response(s), 59 votes
Aislin 39 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
I have a question..... - 10/30/2021

Can you tell me a very dirty story and I do not want a long one. If you do not know any stories maybe a good dirty joke or knock knock games. ...

29 response(s), 49 votes
mture4rotty 21 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Losing points - 10/17/2021

seen like when you get points for free..... its not free you earn them by posting.... its not giving you that, s free..... and when you the points with other its taken away seen like this site is using people for points and using them get more people .... point is that the points are fake they just it get more people get costumer.... your points are less they don;t work and the ...

26 response(s), 60 votes
Aislin 39 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Another question ....for you point lovers.. - 10/3/2021

And please give your very first thought as mine was...omg!, wtf? and like that song from Prince Karm, "Later Bitches" <br><br> So anyway, there I am replying some emails and all of a sudden I get that little box that says, this person flirted with me and when looking at the picture there is a sexy man holding a huge gun wider than of those ...

18 response(s), 54 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Branding - 9/5/2021

over the i have been asked this question ....and was never sure 100% what it really meant...i really dont think about it much but am curious to hear your option of it? what your idea is of Branding would be?

19 response(s), 30 votes
BuilderSir 58 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
tongue piercing - 9/4/2021

For those men who have head from someone with a tongue piercing how was it? how did it compare to non pierced?

8 response(s), 19 votes
gamarriedcouple 71 C
6 questions
Score 0.0
Viagra - 9/3/2021

My wife is keeping me in long term chastity. I am wearing a very small metal cage at the moment. Her and I have a play party to attend soon. She has said she wants me happy at the party. So she is getting some Viagra for me. I have not had Viagra while in this tiny chastity. In fact, I have never had or needed Viagra. Has anyone tried Viagra while locked in chastity. <br><br> I know ...

11 response(s), 34 votes
masterindigo 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
No visible signs of play. - 9/3/2021

I am looking for a way to play with a submissive that will not leave marks. She is very fair skinned and bruises easily. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can physically do to her?

1 response(s), 0 votes
SensualMatureDom 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Vanilla vs BDSM - 9/3/2021

When and how did you come to accept you aren't vanilla?

25 response(s), 34 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
PISS ENEMA - 9/3/2021

Is there anything in that when absorbed in the colon that can harm you?

14 response(s), 17 votes
StrapOnLuv4Life 39 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Help me find someone - 7/31/2021

I have been a member for about 2 weeks now and am having difficulty meeting or having someone at least respond to my e-mails. What am i doing wrong? Please help.

11 response(s), 12 votes
vicki_new 51 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
why silence? - 7/31/2021

I read a great deal of erotic stories and in many, the sub is made to be silent. Can you please explain why? I love the moans and gasps. Is it sometimes to find an easy reason to punish?

22 response(s), 45 votes
bigbossman192 76 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
who is in charge - 7/31/2021

I want to know why this site doesn't allow members paying and non paying to view and make contact with each other. I thought this was a dating site for people of a particular mind set/

28 response(s), 42 votes
Blksouldom 44 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Restrains! - 7/31/2021

What kind of restrains you find most efective, chains, cuffs, ropes, duct tape, etc..

16 response(s), 21 votes
mtmyballs2 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
50 Shades of Grey? - 7/31/2021

How can I spank or paddle a married sub w/o leaving marks for her husband to see. She wnats it badly

19 response(s), 17 votes
DanielleYvette 61 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Clothespins for play on a man--wood or plastic? - 7/30/2021

I would lik eto get some simple clothespins for my kinky fuck buddy's upcoming birthday.

I would like to know if anyone has an opinion as to whether wood or plastic makes a better play toy. My fuck buddy does enjoy CBT and a firm handling of the family jewels.

So--wood or plastic?

Thanks to all for their responses!

Dani

8 response(s), 18 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Hair removal - 7/30/2021

Is there anything stronger than Nair for removing hair from crotch and legs?

12 response(s), 9 votes
looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
Cleanliness ? - 7/10/2021

How important is cleanliness to you. Is it "Next to Godliness?" Or, as in the Manga below (read it right to left - it's Japanese) does the smell turn you on? <br><br> i've never sucked a stinky Dick myself. But i've often wondered what i'd do if i pulled a Man's pants down and was assaulted a three-day-stink, or even an uncut cock with smegma. ...

39 response(s), 63 votes
2fororalsex69 76 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Black cock - 7/8/2021

Why is "black cock" in requirements?

3 response(s), 5 votes
juanstud 53 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Monday curiosity - 7/5/2021

What was your best orgasm like and who was it with?

9 response(s), 34 votes
sagelostprophet2 69 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
If you were totally new to ALT - 7/5/2021

If you were totally new to ALT and this was your first introduction, would you even stay here a day?

32 response(s), 53 votes
atong4u 74 M
7 questions
Score 0.0
Messages - 7/4/2021

How do you contact someone about this site ? My messages received are now in Spanish .This happened before and then changed back to English. Was talking to a lady now cant reply.

12 response(s), 48 votes
barryj43 80 M
78 questions
Score 0.0
live member webcams - 7/4/2021

I getting a little ticked off with the way "ALT" runs it live members web cam sight. When one filters the selection to see who is broadcasting the whole list comes up showing people on line then when you check out their video you find they are no longer broadcasting. Alt should fix their system so that when it refreshes people not broadcasting should no longer be showing. I would also be nice ...

11 response(s), 27 votes
barryj43 80 M
78 questions
Score 0.0
Using needles - 7/4/2021

I am getting interested in the use of needles in the S&M scene. I need to know how and what to use to sanitize them and the best and safest way to insert them through the skin. After care instruction would also be an asset.

10 response(s), 11 votes
subservient_cuck 61 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Is cuckolding natural for certain sub males? - 5/23/2021

Having been cuckolded in the past I have often wondered if cuckolding is natural for certain sub males. It seemed such a natural progression for me in terms of power exchange and reinforced my subsevient sexual role in the relationship. It enabled her to reinforce her sexual pre-eminence and establish the priority of her sexual needs. Being small endowed again this added to the natural feeling of ...

22 response(s), 40 votes
HowKinkyup2U 51 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Splain to Lucy?-Why does my great brother want a girlfriend that cheats and brings creampie home? - 5/22/2021

Okay color me a little naïve! I have a brother in his fifties who doesn’t at all look or act it, whatsoever. He is a good looking man, very bright, a Masters degree, in one discipline, and a PhD in another. He has been married four times, and been searching for what I think is called a cuckolding woman who also likes to fuck him, be his, and stay with him as his woman or significant ...

15 response(s), 16 votes
LedaandTrishaetc 58 G
1 question
Score 0.0
HOW DO U PROPERLY WORSHIP A DOMMES ASS? - 5/22/2021

I WANT MY SLAVES ON THEIR KNEES .PLACING THEIR FACE UNDER MY DRESS OR RAISING IT UP. CARFULLY ROLLING DOWN MY PANTYHOSE & PANTY 2 MY ANKLES. NEXT STAST BY KISSING MY CALFS & WORKING YR WAY UP . NOW MY THIGHS LICKING THEM SOFTLY. ONTO MT BARE ASS CHEEKS KISSING EACH CHEEK SEVERAL TINES. SLOWLY SPREAD MY ASS CHEEKS, LAPPING UP THE INTERIOR OF MY CRACK . GET YR TOGUNE IN MY SHIT HOLE & REAM IT OUT ...

6 response(s), 32 votes