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HerPlayToyForUse 36 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Why so many girls asking for "tributes"? - 12/25/2017

99% of the time I contact someone here and we start talking things always end up going south in the way of they want money or stuff off their Amazon wishlist. Everyone is either a bot or someone looking for suckers to give them money. <br><br> I understand there's such a thing as findommes but these are not that, these are thieves

18 response(s), 28 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Sex matters... - 12/25/2017

Man and woman driven by lust depend much on sexual intercourse. It is practical and useful to have fore play and kissing. At times man tongues pussy and heightens woman's desire for sex. But I have a quetion....Should woman also give blowjob?

12 response(s), 24 votes
tryanythingtwic3 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
younger and internet porn - 12/24/2017

do you think internet porn has changed the way people have sex <br><br> I think it, s more of an age thing, "generational" people my age or in their 40, s did not have porn so readily available. <br><br> younger people were raised on internet porn. I, ll give the way women give head as an example, , women in their 30, s or younger that i have been with want you ...

10 response(s), 26 votes
HerPlayToyForUse 36 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
So many bots here - 12/24/2017

I came across a CONFIRMED bot today. As hard as it is to be a male sub here, it doesn't help wasting points to chat with people who end up being bots. How does a bot even get a confirmed status here?

9 response(s), 28 votes
Laptongue 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What is a Kidnap Mistress - 12/22/2017

i have heard pretty much all the termanology for the last 20ty yrs, but a Kidnap Mistress is new to me. does anyone know exactly what this means? will she kidnap ya and hide ya away?

7 response(s), 14 votes
Armstrong2 78 M
1 question
Score 0.0
permit non Gold members to chat with webcam users - 12/21/2017

How do I submit the following request to ALT.COM? <br><br> Please permit non Gold members to chat with webcam users. ALT used to permit this but no longer does. Perhaps a petition would be the way to go.

19 response(s), 34 votes
looking4fat 72 T
9 questions
Score 0.0
"Ask me anything" - 12/16/2017

We have probably all seen them, those profiles with almost no info but that say something like; "I don't know what to write, but I am an open book. Ask me anything." <br><br> For those with a short attention span, my multi-part question is: Have you ever asked one of these people (usually a male) a question? And if so, what did you ask? And did you get an answer? Was it ...

3 response(s), 30 votes
bob532009 70 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
spanking - 12/14/2017

I am looking for a girl that likes to be spanked. I am new to this and don't want to spank too hard or too light. How does some like me get started with a seasd lady. I don't want to disappoint.

9 response(s), 13 votes
lavielascif 54 T
91 questions
Score 0.0
SEX 100+ (why not?) - 12/9/2017

A one young reporter of NYT hear that in a famous Geriatric Clinic of Doctor Klaus von Strohsack, Black Forest, Germany, live more then one over houndred years and sexualy active mens. She take the plane and fly to Europe to make a good story. At the place, wonderfull, old castle into the mountains, she meet a group of old mens they work or walking in pretty, full of flowers and ...

4 response(s), 21 votes
queenbbwpuma 48 F
3 questions
Score 0.0
How big is too big - 11/26/2017

I've noticed that there are quite a few people on here that are into woman of larger sizes... being one of these woman I'm just curious to know what people in general feel is too large...I personall am a SSBBW.

19 response(s), 21 votes
domyazzhard 61 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
How does a persons article get points - 11/24/2017

I've written 4 articles - erotic stories, and have received 15 points. I notice others have written similar numbers of articles and they may or may not have points - how are points awarded?

15 response(s), 26 votes
domyazzhard 61 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
anyone have any idea how long it takes to get a response from help/contact - 11/22/2017

have sent a number of messages to the site and have yet to get any response been 5 days now - there seems to be a serious staffing lag

6 response(s), 13 votes
adonnis67 56 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What Images Turn Women On? - 11/18/2017

I've gotten mixed signals my entire life. Some women are visually stimulated, some are not, and some are downright repulsed by "Dick Pics". <br><br> What is the consensus on this site? What do Dommes and Mistresses think looks sexy? <br><br> Should I put "Dick Pics" in my profile? <br><br> It's a fascinating subject at any rate. ...

14 response(s), 32 votes
lavielascif 54 T
91 questions
Score 0.0
Maso( a poem) - 11/18/2017

MMMMasochist like me...................................... AAAAllways ready to be----------------------------- SSSSurrender------------------------------------------- OOO Open whats comme on--------------------- # What do you think about poem above?

9 response(s), 26 votes
JustJack72 51 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Fake Profiles - 11/14/2017

Im new to this site, been on a little over a week and in the main absolutely love it. But one thing that is spoiling it is the amount of fake profiles on here. In the space of 3 days I have come across 7 fake profiles. (Im defining a fake profile as someone that is using other peoples images to try and pass them off as themselves. Also peoples profiles telling you they are in one place then ...

19 response(s), 45 votes
Quintab 30 F
1 question
Score 0.0
What do I do to own someone ? - 11/12/2017

Hello everyone , am new to BDSM and He is telling me he want me to own him .. Please can i have some ideas how to go about owning him? I just want to be real because I have been embarrassed by other members , I just want to have someone from this life that I have chosen to live.. Thanks everyone in advance..

14 response(s), 26 votes
luv2ridetongue 51 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Music - 11/10/2017

What is your favorite sexy music to listen to while playing? If you have a link it would be much appreciated. Thank you!

25 response(s), 27 votes
cpl4fun12401 63 C
4 questions
Score 0.0
WTF - 11/10/2017

What is it with guys listing them selves as straight, but are looking for sex with either a women or man. Can't be straight and have sex with the same gender. ( just saying )

12 response(s), 27 votes
Switchinneed 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Anyone know of any good places to get custom sports gear? - 11/8/2017

Hey guys <br><br> Do any of you know of good places to get customised sports gear with front and rear entry zippers in Jogging trousers etc. It is just that I have been looking online but not come across anywhere I did once find one place but it did not bookmark and was therefore wandering if anyone might be able to post me in the right direction? <br><br> Switchinneed

2 response(s), 8 votes
submanbxl 68 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Are men too cock-obsessed? - 10/29/2017

As a man myself, i have a bit of a fixation with my cock. However, i am amazed at how many guys have a cock as a profile pic. Much as i love cocks (mine and others') it gets a teeny bit tedious seeing them all the time. i was wondering that the L/ladies think.

9 response(s), 24 votes
fredbear4 60 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
why - 10/27/2017

We'd like to know why people on this site want to talk and then when we want to meet they stop talking to us, Does anyone else have this problem?

21 response(s), 42 votes
Miomi2010Niasou 31 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How do you open up? - 10/22/2017

Even though I myself am on this site as well as others I still someone who is quite timid and shy. I have difficulties online sometimes just talking or talking to others. Let alone the times I have attempted to go to munches/sloshes and it was all I could do to try and be social.

Going throughout this community and everyday life how do you enable yourself to talk aloud about yourself? ...

10 response(s), 25 votes
Peregrinus1 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Tips for finding a young lady near me? - 10/20/2017

I joined Sunday, filled everything out, and still can't figure out even how to begin to find the person I'm looking for. I don't know if that's because I'm only silver. I get views and even sweet messages that seem like they're from real subs (as opposed to the scam ones I got at first), but those young ladies are very far away, and no one from my area even seems to view ...

8 response(s), 15 votes
one_for_you 70 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Little point....... - 10/12/2017

As a "standard" member I have reached to point where Alt.com has shutdown any service I may have had and is continually (especially after you have not been on the site for a week) posting messages that can only be read by purchasing a subscription from no doubt non existent members. Bye all................

8 response(s), 30 votes
ALLiASKisU1995 31 F
1 question
Score 0.0
someone looking for serous relationship ? - 10/9/2017

IM JUST HAVING FUN USING THIS SITE BUT IS THERE A MEN ON HERE LOOKING FOR RELATIONSHIP ? I KNOW THIS IS A BDSM SITE AND ANYONE LOOKING FOR s*X just asking.

18 response(s), 23 votes
tenderdom2 70 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Daddydomery - 10/6/2017

What does a Daddydom do that Doms ordinaire don't do that babysubs are afraid will be missing? What does a Dom ordinaire do that Daddydoms don't that babysubs are afraid will be present? Is it more that his commitment to age play?

3 response(s), 24 votes
Domme91slave93 30 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
questions - 9/23/2017

1. What are some responsibilities a sissy/slave should have? 2. How can I control his free time? 3. How can I better tease my slave? 4. How can I better control his money?

You can answer one of these or all of them. However, if you do answer all, please number your answers. Thank you and I look forward to reading your responses.

10 response(s), 41 votes
lavielascif 54 T
91 questions
Score 0.0
May Be Sex A Medicine? - 9/19/2017

I think yes, in a hard times you need a power of love and when you love yourself it is a first step to sanity and defend of ill, or not? ask Helga Hart ...

9 response(s), 26 votes
loosey2008 54 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I learn to override my gag reflex? - 9/16/2017

I really want to learn to take my Dom's cock into my throat. How do I learn how to do this?

27 response(s), 51 votes
huggybear20 70 M
1 question
Score 0.0
forced lactation - 9/14/2017

How do you start it ? What is best method to do it?

4 response(s), 20 votes