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tylerj13 19 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Best halloween candy? - 3/9/2024

in your honest opinion for this spooky season what is the top halloween candy?. i personally am a Wunderbar guy. But super curious about everyone else's favorites.

15 response(s), 127 votes
DCdom7033 41 M
13 questions
Score 0.0
A question - 3/9/2024

How long have you been on this site? Why?

3 response(s), 3 votes
pervert6664 54 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
why do all dominants seem to want me to quit the site after exchanging 4 or 5 messages with them? - 3/8/2024

I came to this site to figure out and explore the submissive side of my nature. It seems like every person i speak to, wants me to bond exclusively to them after the exchange of a handful of messages. Is that a definite sign of them being scammers or is my expectation of taking several days if not weeks to get to know someone before committing to being trained by them unrealistic? Am i expecting ...

37 response(s), 96 votes
LogJam1958 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Who's been to Hedo II in Negril? - 3/8/2024

I went to "a" heado 15-20 years ago but don't remember if it was 2 or 3 and thinking about checking this one out. I know it had a 2 to 3 story nude water slide. <br><br> If you have been, what's good (sex & Nudity)? What's bad? )Aside from the nightly dress ups and people fucking in the hot tub under my ALT.com for hours, but good for them). ...

3 response(s), 65 votes
Snugglekittens 44 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How do you find notifications? - 3/8/2024

I am standard member and when someone replies to my post or comment I can’t find it. Is this something I just need help with or need to do something specifically to find it.

10 response(s), 83 votes
Cuminmymouthmmm 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Are you looking for fun in Ho Chi Minh - 3/7/2024

I would like to hear from you

7 response(s), 69 votes
1997julie 27 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Chat room - 3/6/2024

I can access the chat rooms but after hitting send the screen goes and when I refresh my message hasn't been posted <br><br> I have 217 points at the moment <br><br> Any ideas what's happening??

12 response(s), 69 votes
Miss_annie0761 32 F
1 question
Score 0.0
OTK Spanking Mistress Sessions - 3/4/2024

I pull you over my knee and swat you with my hand until your bottom is nice and rosy red, heated to perfection. Maybe I’ll drive you to tears and wailing like the naughty little misbehaver that you are, you clearly deserve some more swats from my cruel hand. I won’t stop until you’ve learned your lesson.

19 response(s), 94 votes
Snugglekittens 44 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
What is best way to accrue points? - 2/13/2024

New to site and still learning the ropes and want to get points. The list of how to doesn’t seem to make a lot of sense. Thoughts?

12 response(s), 63 votes
AliciaCyberstone 47 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
Do some males really need castration? - 2/1/2024

I just received an invitation with this message attached, do some men have a sincere need for this? <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Hi, i need to be castrated, if you can castrate me i would your slave eunuh for the rest of my life

16 response(s), 15 votes
Gold_BBW 63 F
1 question
Score 0.0
No Restraints BDSM - 1/30/2024

I need find more information about BONDAGE without using restraints, pain or strict rules. Is there such a thing, to me it sounds very vanilla?

28 response(s), 238 votes
fuku19 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
sissy - 1/30/2024

do these panties make me look sissy

36 response(s), 108 votes
cococunt313i 29 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Blow Job at the Restaurant - 1/30/2024

Can I sneak under the table at a restaurant and suck my master cock whiles he is waiting for his order or eating? and is it good to always take deep throat because if i am not choked i dont feel the pleasure and i want to have my ass eaten much more than my pussy.

42 response(s), 187 votes
ste616 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
favourable size of a all male gang bang? (how many?) (straight or gay?) - 1/30/2024

<br><br> 5? <br><br> 6? <br><br> 7? <br><br> 8? <br><br> 9? 10? 15? 20? or more?

20 response(s), 53 votes
Airborne19 80 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Slave contracts - 1/30/2024

Does anyone know where I can find a Slave Contract for a potential full-use domestic and personal use Sex Slave??

18 response(s), 55 votes
ballio2 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
scammers - 1/30/2024

are there any real women on this site ?

48 response(s), 132 votes
sickonez85 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
what i your go to post sex snack? - 1/30/2024

dunno if it's just me but after sex i always get hungry. and so as the title suggests im curious what are your go to snacks. Personally i go for something sweet a cookie or slice of cheese cake are never out of the question . So let me know if this is just me or a thing others do as well .

23 response(s), 91 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Cocks and crossdressers????? - 1/30/2024

Why do most cross dresser pictures have their cocks hanging out ? Don't they want to be like women ? Is it just being dressed femme feels so good ? Don't get me wrong I enjoy the sight of a nice cock in a pair of panties ....

19 response(s), 71 votes
yogatrix 22 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Dominate men - 1/29/2024

What do I say to the men that are Dominates? Hmmm.... should I tell them? There are those of you that will understand... and those that will wonder what the problem is... I'll leave it at that...

32 response(s), 162 votes
tylerj13 19 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Anyone else? - 1/29/2024

Just super over heated here and wondering is there anyone else that has had enough of the summer heat an Humidity?. i for one look forward too nice cool fall weather .

2 response(s), 2 votes
Snugglekittens 44 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
What are all the marks on the member sites? - 1/29/2024

I am new and can’t find a list of a blue check, purple circle with a squiggle, etc. <br><br> I know gold members as that is obvious but what about all the other little symbols on member accounts?

8 response(s), 52 votes
devoted2020 57 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
book a dungeon - 1/21/2024

to book a dungeon with a lady never met will not tell me where it is very demanding about this says it trust and there no website you contact a rep to pay them this feel like a red flag am i right never book a dungeon before what would you do

11 response(s), 36 votes
Queen_Ann04 43 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Newbie questions - 1/20/2024

What experience and offers you have got for Mistress <br><br> What is your best play and color <br><br> What do you do for living <br><br> How soon are you willing to be with Mistress and how long

3 response(s), 2 votes
bigbossman192 76 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
cock rings - 1/7/2024

What are the effects of a cock ring?

18 response(s), 53 votes
MisterSmiley01 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Sounding - 1/3/2024

If you are into sounding can you share Some tips on safety and techniques?

30 response(s), 226 votes
SexyPerth 75 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
For female subs - 12/31/2023

What are your expectations re financial arrangements if you live with a Dom / Master? Is it usual for such a person to work for employment? <br><br> Thanks

4 response(s), 42 votes
devoted2020 57 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
training kit - 12/31/2023

my question is i been ask to send money to a mistress to buy a training kit has i new to this and still learning this am needing some advice or any ideas would be great

42 response(s), 94 votes
SnigdhaBanerjeeY 38 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
How many dicks should i take in a gang bang? - 12/31/2023

Is there any limit or I can take as many dicks I can in a gangbang? I had max 5 men till now, but I am always hungry for more and more. Nd I love being video shot and pics taken like a Porn star as well. Guess that's cool. What do you guys feel?

63 response(s), 96 votes
_hazine_ 44 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Hello - 12/31/2023

How do I get some of that jazzy bling on my profile? ...

29 response(s), 103 votes
saratho 27 F
1 question
Score 0.0
IM - 12/31/2023

I have just opened an account and I can't seem to open the IM at all, is this normal when you first join up?

7 response(s), 18 votes