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Come2playwithyoy 36 F
3 questions
Score 0.0
Mistress - 3/4/2019

I am looking for a mistress and all I get is people that want money. How do I find a mistress to be used by.

8 response(s), 22 votes
tezer65 58 M
19 questions
Score 0.0
is love enough? - 2/24/2019

Hey everyone, been a while since I really asked a question. And since I am going through a bit of a transitional period, I thought I would as the question!
IS LOVE ENOUGH?
For those who don't know it, Me and jnnjr had been seeing each for, and for quiet some time - almost 2 years I believe. This is a definite case of all good things coming to an end I believe.
I like to ...

10 response(s), 11 votes
janeraped 48 F
24 questions
Score 0.0
Giving reputation - 2/24/2019

There's a new feature called 'giving reputation' where you can give members reputation points for various things- like their blogs, profiles, posts etc.

The reputation points are found in your profile, on the top.

Can someone tell me would it cost you your points to either give or minus reputation points? - ie, the points that you've accumulated when you joined and collected ...

10 response(s), 14 votes
oreoboomer 64 F
1 question
Score 0.0
? - 2/21/2019

Don't ask what?

5 response(s), 19 votes
bevthegypsie2 48 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
The art of a good photo - 2/18/2019

Here's the situation in a nutshell. I take terrible photos. Everyone when they meet me instantly say "You look nothing like your photo! Your great looking" I have been told what an infectous smile I have and how great my eyes are, but it never comes out in a picture. Like it or not a picture says a thousand words in on-line dating. So what's the deal? Any advice that isn't going to cost me ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
DanUK2006 41 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Is it possible to be a 'daddy' figure when your 24? - 2/18/2019

I think i could be, but obviously the age thing poses some questions.

Please try to be more constructive than, 'no' lol

Cheers.

13 response(s), 23 votes
subzero98 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
World AIDS Day - 2/8/2019

December 1st is World AIDS Day. <br><br> It is a reminder that HIV and AIDS are still with us and much work remains to be done. It is a day to bring about more awareness and to help raise funds for research and education among many other things. <br><br> Looking at unaids organisation website I found both disturbing and promising statistics which I would like to share: ...

5 response(s), 13 votes
2old2run 71 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
May I say Thank You? - 2/8/2019

Hello, May I say Thank You to all of you that read and or made a comment on my question about does anyone read profiles. I have read all that have come in and Thank You. You have all made it very clear to me that there are some very wonderful people on this site. All of you have made my day by just answering my question. Hugs and THANK YOU. 2old2run

8 response(s), 26 votes
shute1 53 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Uhh..don't know about this place - 2/8/2019

Are there any women on here that actually meet??love to have a beautiful woman 1on1 or mff 3sum.i just hardly ever see any women on here anymore..and there certainly not close by. Lol

4 response(s), 7 votes
antreas2015 39 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
hghahgthbfgb - 2/8/2019

hello how are you

7 response(s), 23 votes
FunJim65 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What kind of dungon are people looking for? - 2/8/2019

I'm thinking of building a dungon. Not sure what kind of walls to have. Wood walls or rock? How light or how dark. And no, I'm not thinking Fifty Shades. What are peoples thoughts.

12 response(s), 25 votes
Vampirefamiliar 53 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Vampirella! - 2/6/2019

Does anyone here enjoy vampire fetishes?

6 response(s), 10 votes
simply_butterfly 52 F
13 questions
Score 0.0
When it's over. . . - 2/4/2019

A few days ago I was released by my Master and I was wondering what steps others feel should be made in coming to a complete resolution of the relationship and who the onus is on to do what. Also what steps can and should be taken to help minimize ongoing explanations to everyone who are merely concerned but curious. I sent a network bulletin notifying everyone on my friends list and ...

10 response(s), 23 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Long Distance.. yay or nay? - 2/2/2019

Have you ever found yourself voluntarily or coincidentally involved or interested with someone whom time or distance would not allow you to see immediately (relatively speaking) ? Be it temporarily (while you or they are away and you just happen to start talking and be a match)... or more long term when one moves or meets someone across country... <br><br> How did you manage?

12 response(s), 29 votes
advent43 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Upgrades - 2/2/2019

Hey Peeps, I just finished a few months of free gold and decided to check out the upgrade . What I found was odd, there is still a silver upgrade as well as the more expensive gold. Odd because the other various sites that I'm aware of no longer offer a silver membership...I suppose the only question I have is the gold really worth it? I don't exactly hang out here, but what of adding ...

18 response(s), 26 votes
twosharp2 79 M
17 questions
Score 0.0
An influx of fembots & pros? - 1/31/2019

When I login, my home page has photos of women who are Online Now and Recent New Member Photo Gallery. For the past 1-2 months, many have nondescript names, just a bunch of random letters. When I view their profile, the Fetish Checklist and Responses are blank. There are often many 'prefer not to says'. Some are even as stupid to post a caucasian photo, then state in the profile they are black. ...

4 response(s), 15 votes
ColneaJoans 67 F
13 questions
Score 0.0
Profile Views and updating profiles - 1/29/2019

I understand that standard members can view profiles if enough people are viewing their profiles.

I was frequently able to view a few profiles, but recently updated my profile. Did that set the profile view count back to zero or was there a policy change at Alt that we were or were not told about?

6 response(s), 16 votes
subfrdom 71 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
ALT Survey - 1/28/2019

have you seen or filed out the Alt survey on the home page. it ask. Help us improve the site, survey.

11 response(s), 5 votes
juicyslut2001 66 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
Tuesday anomaly? - 1/28/2019

As most of us know full well, for a Standard member privileges are few. But lately I have noticed a recurring anomaly. (Others may already know this, in which case I apologise for repeating something that may be common knowledge.)

If I make the effort to be active on a regular basis and also make sure to access Alt on a Monday, then on Tuesday when I come here I can view ...

6 response(s), 12 votes
happycamper_bl 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cattle prod use on a submissive - 1/27/2019

I have read of dom's using cp on their submissives, but am unable find any "safety" information. Because of age and interest in use on various areas of the body Want to know if anyone has anything to share? Know it will be brutal, but have definite interest in trying

3 response(s), 8 votes
Bottom4girls 40 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
will a girl like to piss on my face? or fuck me rough? - 1/24/2019

i enjoy dominate girls, i worship cunt, especially urinating cunt.

1 response(s), 7 votes
Bottom4girls 40 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
any girls like to pee on a face? - 1/24/2019

pee girls are awesome

1 response(s), 6 votes
Bottom4girls 40 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
any girls what to fuck my ass till i cry? - 1/23/2019

i love dominate girls sexualizing my ass in female gangbangs

2 response(s), 8 votes
lavielascif 54 T
91 questions
Score 0.0
Facesitting - 1/23/2019

Well buttpluged and facesited? Who experienced about this submission? ...

12 response(s), 34 votes
bdsmdpan 41 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
give me some advice about this - 1/22/2019

Could you give me some advice about can you accept a woman that older than you probably 5+ to be your gf?



































2 response(s), 8 votes
2old2run 71 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
does anyone read profiles? - 1/22/2019

Hello, I sure that this question has been asked a 1000 or more times on this site. But, I am getting emails from 20 to 38 year old ladies that want me to be their.. Master, Slave, Sub, for a LTR. They say nothing about being a friend, or someone to talk with. If they had taken the time to read my profile they would see that I am not looking to be a Master or Slave in a LTR. And they would see ...

25 response(s), 41 votes
tastetester61 62 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Who's having major site operational Problems? - 1/19/2019

So, after 2 years as a non paying member I decided to pay up in the hope that the major issues with this site had been rectified. Yeah sure, being overrun by scammers and fakes were still going to be here, that's just how this site operates. So, the site offers an upgrade deal whereby I pay for 12 months gold membership, and I get 18 months. However, when I check the auto renew status, it ...

10 response(s), 32 votes
roseamilia 60 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Is it wrong to fall in love with your Master? - 1/18/2019

Just a simple question. I would like to hear what others have to say. I love my Master and wasn't sure if this was out of line or not.

19 response(s), 27 votes
IWatchHerPee 40 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Nude girls pooping - 1/18/2019

Get naked girls, spread legs and piss n poop

6 response(s), 22 votes
daisymaytv 112 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Alt down - 1/18/2019

<br><br> Hi <br><br> Did anybody else suffer ALT being offline on Thursday? All I kept getting was "Error 500 internal server error". Now its back IM is playing up again with only 21 members online and nobody local to the UK. Everybody is stateside. <br><br> Have fun and play safe <br><br> Daisy

28 response(s), 40 votes