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No thanks !!! 12/11/2005
Is it just me or do a lot of people have a problem with saying
"no thanks" ?
<br>
I have been a member of alt now for several yaers and have
written many well directed messages top people. My profile
is very long and my messages are always directed at the speciffic
person, couple.
<br>
At the end of my message I always ask that if you are not interested
please just send ...
3 Comments,
384 Views,
27 Votes
,7.87 Score
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what men want 9/20/2005
Men can stop chasing sex and say "no thanks"
but if it falls in their lap...they're all over it.
If a female walks to any guy she'll get sexual favors
3 out of 4 guys wether they're married or not
1 Comments,
194 Views,
13 Votes
,1.63 Score
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"No" doesn't = "Nasty" 9/20/2005
One of the things the Internet has added to our lives as we
seek our partner, is access to a larger pool. I live in a city
that has plenty of prospective partners, but how do you
cut through the bs and find others with compatible interests?
The Net provides safe ways, like through ALT...
First, it enables me to look at a profile, hopefully with
a picture, and see if what's said or unsaid ...
1 Comments,
135 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Pay attention... 8/30/2005
I can't & won't speak for others. I can only
voice my own opinion, for whatever it's worth. Frankly,
if you answer a profile/message that the poster feels you
don't meet their requirements? Don't be surprised
if you get a reply that may singe your eyeballs!
<br>
People; male, female, top, bottom, dom/me, sub, slave,
whatever, get tired of sifting thru the needy, greedy,
fulfill ...
3 Comments,
365 Views,
32 Votes
,7.46 Score
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Masochism without the sex 8/11/2005
I came here looking for someone to get involved in needle
play with, not because it arouses me sexually, but because
i like the how it feels in a "pain to know you are alive"
way. I have been in the community as a voyeur for a year now,
and the only thing that i have ever seen and wanted was to
be pierced.
I came to find a piercing artist who can maybe involve me
in a show without going ...
2 Comments,
313 Views,
16 Votes
,2.25 Score
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ID feel much better 7/26/2005
yes thats right if a person feels the message they recieved
was not for them then a simple no thanks would do the trick.
By saying no in a responceyou let the other member know that
the site is not full of people who just want to show photos
of them selves so to all those who respond NO THANKS THANK
YOU FLASH51167
0 Comments,
72 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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White or Wong? 7/2/2005
My sub and I have been together for 30 plus years as husband
and wide as well as Dom/sub. I am a psychologist and from
the moment I met her I realised she was a closet Bisexual.
So I encouraged her to make love with other women, although
I liked to be present. She has had some terrific lovers;
some subs as well, which has made things especially good
from my point of view. But the most ...
0 Comments,
348 Views,
17 Votes
,1.29 Score
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Please Read Profile Before Sending An Email 5/11/2005
I have recieved emails from individuals who have in all
likelihood not taken the time to read my profile. If they
had they wouldn't have put forth the effort to send
me an email as my location and what I am seeking here differs
from their own. I typically don't respond to these
emails, not out of a lack of common courtesy but because
it's clear that they either didn't read my profile,
or ...
5 Comments,
96 Views,
37 Votes
,5.95 Score
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saying not interested 5/11/2005
even if you email someone or they email you, it would be polite
in just saying no thanks or not my type, I have found that
people have a tendency to get really rude if you don't
respond either way. so I make it a point to reply whether
to say no thanks or not my type, just my viewpoint
4 Comments,
93 Views,
20 Votes
,3.51 Score
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Revealing 5/11/2005
A friendly and polite response to a profile should merit
a "No thanks" if the person doesn't match
one's preferences. If not it would not only be a lack
of "kinderstube": it is surprising how many
people don't realize ho much they are revealing about
themselves by not extending this basic courtesy. Not getting
any reply at all after some time is an answer in itself - and
I for one accept ...
2 Comments,
125 Views,
15 Votes
,4.36 Score
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Say no thanks and then...... 4/30/2005
Say no thanks and then block the user. That way you don't
have to listen to the whiners.
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Still looking for my slave.
0 Comments,
117 Views,
16 Votes
,4.16 Score
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG… 4/20/2005
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Comments,
94 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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Me ? 4/16/2005
Usually I get a lot of inappropriate sexual offers because
I look so pretty. Some gays think I'm a boy HO and try
to buy me what a mistake they want a man and would run a soon
as they saw my tits! Not that wouldn't like it I'm
just not who they were thinking I was. Then some
teens try to pick-up on me usually girls who are attracted
by my looks and are under legal age not exactly who I ...
0 Comments,
233 Views,
15 Votes
,0.07 Score
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ha,ha,ha 3/31/2005
how do you get a gay guy to fuck a woman?shit in her cunt.
1 Comments,
177 Views,
43 Votes
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A kinder way to reject a prospect 3/19/2005
My experience with the Alt IM and Chatrooms has left me with
a somewhat bitter taste for the manner in which disinterest
is shown.
<br>
I would suggest that Alt managment devise a more subte and
less semantic manner in which to indicate a lack of interest
in either an IM or private chat arrangement.
<br>
Could we not utilize, "Sorry, but [this person] is
not presently ...
3 Comments,
245 Views,
25 Votes
,3.57 Score
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Reply to Hurting Feelings 1/29/2005
I too have seen much of this. When sent an e-mail no matter
if I am interested or not, I write back cordially thanking
them but respectfully declining. Why is it then these socalled
"Dominants" come back with acidy remarks and
hissing insults? One word: Immaturity. They've never
truly grown up. Either within the lifestyle or outside
of it. Same can be said for women however.
...
1 Comments,
84 Views,
36 Votes
,8.07 Score
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how to get out without being rude. 1/15/2005
i recentley met this guy online and before we met he seemed
really cool. he looked attractive to me and he was well hung
and said he was a total top wich i really like. but when i got
to his place he was totally not what he said he was then i was
really dissapointed, but i didnt really know what to say.
i ended up leaving without doing anything with him but he
said that i was a tease and ...
2 Comments,
410 Views,
18 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Cougars 1/11/2005
I don't know about you, but I have trouble with Cougars.
They are constantly prowling around me, its not that I'm
overly against fooling around with older women, its when
they say "you know I have a your age" that
doesn't do it for me.
<br>
Why is it the Cougars are far more forward then the rest?
6 Comments,
226 Views,
16 Votes
,2.10 Score
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How lovely we are not meant for each other 1/6/2005
WEll well well,
of late i have had some pleasant experiences with saying
no thanks. In a couple of letters i responded with...'i
think You got the wrong idea about what i am looking for,
but thanks for writing' or ' i am afraid that that
is really not something i am interested in' or even
'now i know all about You, You have not even said why
You wrote me, i do not think there is any hope ...
0 Comments,
132 Views,
17 Votes
,5.11 Score
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Sometimes it's just not worth it! 12/28/2004
I used to take the time to say no politely and it usualy ends
up in the other person getting hostile over being rejected.
If someone is across the country or IN another country I
don't see the point of answering. It's silly to
me and I don't have the time to be honest. Don't
take it personally! Just my 2 cents..
1 Comments,
145 Views,
32 Votes
,3.52 Score
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Time to be polite. 12/23/2004
I believe that any well mannered person has the time to be
polite. Of course standard members are restricted to the
number of emails they can answer. I understand that. Anyone
who writes me gets a reply even if it is no thank you. I appreciate
that people here are reaching out to people they feel may
be kindred spirits. Take heart my fellow rejectees. Somebody's
looking for somebody like ...
2 Comments,
94 Views,
30 Votes
,6.18 Score
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WHy do people "phish" 12/21/2004
Why is it that people will send a "email" with
a different addy to respond back to. And then have links
to "paid" sites in order to reply. At other sites.?
To me it gets old. Am I the Lone Ranger or what?
1 Comments,
102 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG… 12/20/2004
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Comments,
135 Views,
20 Votes
,6.44 Score
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One of the obstacles I've run into with my own bi-curiosity... 12/18/2004
I used to get whipped every now and then by a master (who will
remain nameless here), he knew I was bi-curious, but he
also knew that the mutual agreement between US was he was
master and he whipped me. Before we did anything, we discussed
a bit about what was acceptable between us. I already have
a mistress and I'm HER slave, and every now and then
she liked to send me to him for a proper ...
1 Comments,
171 Views,
14 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Submission brings a great deal of problems with being assertive 12/13/2004
I am a new submissive femme and getting more than my fair
share of responses. the trouble is that i am happy to messege
the Doms and i am not wasting time, i really do want to meet
up with some of them, but some of them try to really pressurise
me into a meeting the first time we talk and i find it very
difficult to say no. Sometimes they want things that i am
not ready for and sometimes ...
1 Comments,
83 Views,
16 Votes
,6.21 Score
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how could you? 12/2/2004
this one would like to take a moment or two to speak her feelings
on the word No and what it means girl was always taught that
no matter your relation no matter your situation one always
has the right to say No or has a safe word then when used is
supposed to stop the present activity from happening but
it seems to this girl that sometimes ...
1 Comments,
97 Views,
17 Votes
,2.70 Score
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Responding to e-mails 11/19/2004
I have seen frequent postings on alt about people who don't
answer e-mail. I myself have a system. In my profile I clearly
state that I won't relocate, want nothing to do with
attached partners and am not into sadists. Despite this
I get e-mail from these individuals which I typically don't
answer. Nor should I be expected to, if the individual sending
it has read my profile then they know ...
1 Comments,
91 Views,
20 Votes
,6.70 Score
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You'd have to be crazy. 10/21/2004
How many times has a hot woman in a tight red dress approached
you, brushed her blond bangs out of her blue eyes, curled
her pouty lips up and asked you: do you come here often? Do
you want to?
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Now if this were to happen... would you turn her down? We
all know that if you are a man, and you know that this blonde
is not a man.... the answer is Huh NOOOO>
<br>
...
0 Comments,
73 Views,
9 Votes
,0.86 Score
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