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winks and flirting 8/29/2008
Having someone view your profile might suggest they liked
you picture or your one-line come on but it doesn't
necessarily mean they're interested. After reading
about you, there might not be a match. Still it shows up on
your "interested" list.
But winks should be a better indicator right? I say *should*
because I am the proud recipient of a "no thanks"
quick reply indicating she ...
2 Comments,
142 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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No Thank You 4/21/2008
I was checking on the love list and this couple came up
that look to be interesting so i set them a wink and put them
on my hot list. I was wink back and put on their hot list. I e-mail the back to let them know that i was interested in
them Even if they wear on the heavy side, I did not have a
problem with that. The Female was Dom and her husband was a Sub, I sent her a couple of e-mails as to ...
0 Comments,
230 Views,
9 Votes
,1.07 Score
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How to say no to a woman 1/1/2008
I meet this lovely and beautiful woman here on Alt.com.
I am ready for sex, in all kind and ways, so was she.., but
she was also ready for more; moving togheter in the same
apartment etc. She want listening to me, I doesn't
want a relationship. How to say "No"..!?
3 Comments,
379 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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In defence 10/30/2007
When I first joined Alt and every other site, I made a point
of replying to each response I got even though at times it
felt as if I needed a secretary.
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I try to be clear on my wants/needs and not to lead anyone
up the garden path...
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I thought that 'thanks for your interest but you are
not for me' would be appreciated instead I received
responses asking ...
4 Comments,
571 Views,
37 Votes
,6.96 Score
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reply to Does Commonsense go out the window? 7/28/2007
I am a dom and I have a "no play" on the first date
rule (no play dosen't mean no sex, just no bondage).
It would seem to me that this should be an "unwritten
Law" for subs. Why would anyone put themselvs at the
complete mercy of a total stranger?
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Hey, there are clowns out there and they are eating people!
So, this is more advice than anything. When meeting someone
new, ...
2 Comments,
71 Views,
44 Votes
,6.06 Score
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Male Obligations 7/1/2007
It seems the more and more I get into the lifestyle the more
and more i notice that we (of the lifestyle) have a respect
for one another. Top, bottom, male, female, doesn't
matter limits are limits. Which is great but since i live
in a small area i'm stuck looking for vanallia people
to be aroung and date around with, and i think I've noticed
that there is a great lack of resect it seems in ...
1 Comments,
162 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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How to explain to a submissive that he is not suitable 6/28/2007
A submissive usually would not take no for an answer. He
will ask and cajole and plead and say that he loves you(this
is often just a trick to get you to keep him). You get annoyed
bu his whining.
To test whether the guy is genuine, tell him to do something
difficult for you, that would require a lot of effort from
him and observe what he does.
He either does what you asked ...
2 Comments,
124 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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When there IS no reply... 6/26/2007
I'd think it's safe to say that if you send someone
a reply and you don't get one back, does this not mean
they're not interested?? I've had many people
get so snotty about this and show their true colrs/manners.
So.. What I DONT get is that WHY do the men get so upset over
not getting a reply when their profile CLEARLY states/wreaks
that they're out for a*s?? Personally, if they cant ...
4 Comments,
421 Views,
23 Votes
,4.65 Score
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leave it alone 5/21/2007
Why can't people take no for an answer. If a married
person contacts me I politely reply and tell them I am not
interested in married men. Please leave it at that. I don't
want to hear about your miserable marriage or that your
wife is not into it. I am not into it with a married man!
2 Comments,
287 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Why do some trolls cant take a rejection 2/28/2007
Ive noticed that most trolls can not take rejection. It
makes me question..?
Im always polite when someone approaches me but I can get
really angry when they keep going on and on... so if this
is you.. dont show women that you are desperate it is so unattractive...
thank you
2 Comments,
235 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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I'm a bit curious 1/20/2007
hey out there I'm not sure if this is the right place
for this but can anyone tell me why most men on here seem not
to be able to read?
now I'm not a man hater, but as my profile states I'm
looking for a girl here as, don't take offense, but
men are somewhat easier to find in normal everyday life.
but I keep getting hounded by pictures of unatractive mens
privates and it's starting to ...
13 Comments,
857 Views,
50 Votes
,5.77 Score
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Should I...? 1/3/2007
My "boyfriend", Paul, is very persuasive.
Only recently have I finally given into him and had sex,
but before that I had to resort to all sorts of excuses to
say no. Did I have a good reason? No, not at all. I didn't
want to have sex, but then, I was young and didn't know
much. Every time Paul suggested it, I would feel embarassed
and wonder what to say. My first thought was always, "Should ...
3 Comments,
387 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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Propriety or Prudishness 12/19/2006
When it comes to male on male love....its strictly a matter
of personal choice. I mean , most guys have had one or two.......a
few or more Homosexual encounters in their time. (and)
that is understandable.
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However, I think a guy has to make some choices...........like-
I am a regular Bi-sexual or I make a living fucking other
guys -up the ass, (ect.
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Now, ...
2 Comments,
223 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Is It Illiteracy or Just Ignorance? 12/19/2006
The thing is a lot of times, saying "No thanks"
doesn't work. Men are particularly clueless. They
troll. They stalk. They whine, wheedle, and lie their asses
off just for the incomprehensible "flirtation"
of showing you a picture of their penis as if that's
all the allure someone wants in a relationship. Get some
clues, boys!
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When someone takes the time and makes the ...
2 Comments,
588 Views,
53 Votes
,6.80 Score
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when you've found someone else.... 12/19/2006
Why is it that whenever I've said "Thank-you,
but I've found what I'm looking for right now"
men seem to think its an invite to ask one of, or the entire
series of questions...
"Why does he have I don't" "What makes you think he's better than me"
"Why did you lead me on"
"Will you keep in touch with me in case it doesn't
work out"
"Will you just call me anyways"
Its pathetic. ...
1 Comments,
170 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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everyones expecting 12/19/2006
people are always sending the most crazy emails and most
expect a responce. This isn't porn shop just a place
to hook up. if people would lightn up and just be honest with
self you'd be getting some right now.
1 Comments,
102 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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how do u say no 12/19/2006
when u set up a meeting with a girl and she smells like fish
how do u tell her no
1 Comments,
127 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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After I was finished he said no thanks. 11/11/2006
I recently had a man write to me. This was the first e mail
to me and this is how I said no in a different way and gave him
a taste of his own crudeness.
_____________________________________
I'm looking for a bit of help--special help. I'm
thinking of having 4 guys over for a poker party but I need
a bit of an edge. You could help me with this edge by assuming
the role as my hostess ...
13 Comments,
1553 Views,
98 Votes
,8.00 Score
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flakes 9/22/2006
why are there so many dishonest deceitful guys out there?
I am very explicity as to what i give and want from a guy. Im
a bottom tgirl and say so, but they lie about their desires
and only want a BJ. Or they are a half-and-half XDreseer
and look awful with their hairy bodies and terrible clothes.
Im also through replying to non-photo members. all men
are the same - only their ugly faces ...
3 Comments,
473 Views,
27 Votes
,3.56 Score
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never thought it would happen 8/7/2006
never thought it would happen to me. I'm not one of those
pretty boys. In the last 3 months I have found 3 occasions
in which I needed to say "No thanks." For one
it was just there was no attraction what so ever. She kept
saying it was the best I could ever get - but I have learned
to have standards. The other was a lady who was in a sad state
mentally. I could not bring myself to ...
1 Comments,
225 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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Don't bend over 7/10/2006
I often had my slave complain when i give it to there in the
ass, i hvae the answer just told her not ot bend over then!
2 Comments,
104 Views,
26 Votes
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I'm innept 6/3/2006
I meet people from thse sites occationally, and they're
never my type. I have no good way of turning them away, so
I just try and fade out of mind. Does anyone have a better
way, without hurting anyones feelings? Am I doing it right?
5 Comments,
343 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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will you be the slave for the rest of my life?NO THANKS 5/28/2006
Why people just dont understand when u refuse them and they
are so angry about it.I just dont get it, or maybe i am a little
bit stupid hehe
2 Comments,
227 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Safety In Play 4/16/2006
Hi All,
I recently went to meet up with a mistress from the uk, called
SexyDomBitch. We had chatted on line for a week days and
had discussed a lot fo BDSM activities we both enjoyed.
During this time, She had asked me to send her 15 pictures
of myself doing things she had told me she wanted to see.
Throughout this she refused point blank to send me a picture
of herself and told me I ...
6 Comments,
568 Views,
37 Votes
,6.54 Score
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how to say no 3/25/2006
Be honest in your evaluation of the other person and if you
still feel a negativity of interest be firm and say/write
NO (nothing else equates with these two letters so far as
communication is concerned - it is a universal acceptance
of negativity).
0 Comments,
205 Views,
15 Votes
,2.67 Score
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Meeting and Declining Sexual Invitations 2/15/2006
Has anyone ever met anyone off of this site and changed thier
mind about having sex with them because of false information
or pictures posted on the site?
4 Comments,
569 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score
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dont get tied down. 2/11/2006
She looked so nuetral. And as i talked to her she showed no
sign of what was to come . I went to her house and we drank some
then she got a little goofy and asked me if she could tie my
hands behind my back. i Playfiully said yes she looked so
sweet and beautiful. nice and almost naive.I let her kindinly
. She removed my pants and as i was naked she rubbed me off
before tying it off with ...
0 Comments,
549 Views,
21 Votes
,0.28 Score
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The Message 1/31/2006
I have always found it to be very important to communicate
in some detail as of why things will not click between a new
aquaiqutance and or enquiry. Even if my mail box is flooded
with virtually dozen’s of new messages with most of them
being “canned” and very short to a degree of a few pointed
and often degrading words. My responses have varied of
course, but overall I always give a ...
1 Comments,
369 Views,
25 Votes
,4.68 Score
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is it right to abuse someone while their hurting? 12/23/2005
well is it?
u dont a friend, sit on the edge of their bed and while
their asleep touch them.
u dont do u?
especialy when they have just been made homeless, childless, humiliated, and
forced to be sub or else.
by yet another nasty vile monster.
0 Comments,
213 Views,
180 Votes
,4.89 Score
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when a sub is really a dom 12/23/2005
i recently knew a very mixed up man, howard a sub.
he strangely ordered me about, yet still insisted he was
sub.
hed lose his temper with me, tell me im a bitch.
hes well and truly gone from my life.......he tried to abuse
his cleaner, what a weirdo.
0 Comments,
194 Views,
226 Votes
,0.27 Score
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