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VirginSub3 37 F
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How do you know?   6/3/2006

Just a question to everybody. How do you know that you're meant to be dominant? Submissive? Switch? <br> Does something happen that tells you, or is it just a feeling you have? <br> I just ask this because I want to know if I'm the only one who feels different. I don't have any friends that feel the way I do, and I don't know if it's supposed to be conscious decisions ...


7 Comments, 284 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
jnb4u 70 C
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Panty Sniffing   5/31/2006

Am I alone or are there others of you out there that appreciate the sweet and erotic aroma of a woman's panties, which have been worn recently of course? <br> Just this scent, ranging from delicate to overwhelming, can give me a semi in a matter of seconds. I love to start each day with a few sniffs of my woman's panties that she wore the night before and conveniently left on the ...


1 Comments, 240 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
vyllyness 64 F
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Recovery and BDSM   5/26/2006

When I landed in recovery, nearly by my own hand (suicide gesture) at the end of my drinking days, I found out that the quickest way to descend into despair and relapse was to become mundane and boring. <br> Replacing old behaviors with new interests and experiences was the key to recovery for me. The bane of recovery is that for the rest of your life you must FEEL everything. ...


0 Comments, 454 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
tinydickforfun 41 M
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Ever been humiliated, and liked it?   5/25/2006

I was interested in knowing if there were other people like me who get extremely turned on by humiliation. For me, I love it when someone humiliates my little dick. Are there any others who get turned on by similiar interests, and have you ever experienced the humiliation?


4 Comments, 332 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
pusslicker292 47 M
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penis enlargments   5/24/2006

are there penal implants to make the penis bigger like women's breast implants?


4 Comments, 325 Views, 0 Votes
tylerrose 54 F
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Open Letter to Jackasses   5/17/2006

Open Letter to Jackasses By TylerRose. <br> What makes you think you have authority over me or any other sub/slave? What makes you think we have to answer questions about how long we’ve been with our dominant or what we like to do? What makes you think you are entitled to respect and outspokenness and we are not? What makes you think you must possess the only correct ...


5 Comments, 128 Views, 57 Votes ,7.23 Score
Silkdude 69 M
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Silk Scarves and Bondage   5/1/2006

As a mature adult male with a fetish for silks and satins, especially silk scarves and scarf bondage I have always loved to incorporate silk scarves into my fetish play but I have met with some scepticism and negative responses to my beloved fetish. I.ve heard some say scarf bondage is dangerous, ,(not, I've been doing it for many years and never had any dangerous situations), I've heard ...


0 Comments, 91 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
dynamitesneonaty 41 M
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I can't vote   4/15/2006

Whenever I click on the links to vote on articles or responces i get a weird error. Anyone else getting that here?


1 Comments, 30 Views, 0 Votes
luvxxxfun 60 C
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The Tweeze Challenge!   3/25/2006

Is there anyone out there that is tired of having your lips and face rubbed raw from pubic regrowth stubble while giving head or eating pussy? If so, read on!!! I am here to tell you there is a solution! TWEEZING...
Yes, you read correctly. Too painful you say. Yes at first there is some pain involved but it does not last. After about the ...


2 Comments, 265 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
quietguyus2000 68 M
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The STRAP-ON   3/17/2006

I can't help but wonder about a strap-on dildo. I understand how the person recieving it would get enjoyment from it, but I don't understand what the wearer gets out of it. How does it stimulate the person wearing it? I've never had the courage to ask someone how it works. Could someone in here please explain it to me? <br> I'm serious in my request. I'm not asking for porn ...


2 Comments, 185 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Max_n_mita 71 C
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Honesty...   3/17/2006

Funny how so many profiles demand or request honesty from anyone who may wish to contact the person in the profile isn't it?
Even funnnier is the number of BS artists who post a completely inaccurate profile then insist that everyone else be honest.
DUHHH !!
Then to top the list are the profiles that list "desires" that are completely incompatible. Like ...


2 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
assplorer 64 F
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does anyone else agree??   3/12/2006

i have written before about your charging women 4 membership i have 590 points still you want to make it difficult for me to view profiles of men who have replied to my ad. do you not get enough money from the men? don't you think they would willingly pay a bit more to allow us poor hard working single women the freedom, to use this web site to it's maximum. i really think that you ...


1 Comments, 94 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
Subgrrlie 55 F
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alt points   2/26/2006

Ok, I'm just starting to do this collecting of alt. points thing and I have a question. It says there's a max when it comes to the number of points you make voting and answering questions - is that a max. per month or max. period? Thanks in advance to any responses I get to this question.


2 Comments, 248 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
michelle61 62 T
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Having a good time!   2/21/2006

I would really love to relate how being a happy crossdresser is such a wonderful thing! Since it is rather unconventional (lol) there are times (too many!)that you see posts of men trying to deal with this and struggling with it. It might be shame, fear of homosexuality, relationship concerns etc.. all are valid points to varying degrees, but none of which I believe should entirely stop ...


4 Comments, 328 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
Rikkicdnj 66 T
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The Alt men   2/21/2006

Having met many men from this online community I have to say they have done a great job with this website. It is the most easy place to find people and groups with the same interests. I have had over 7000 hits since joining. They never cancel on you and they show great imagination. Way to go ALT !!!


1 Comments, 130 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
MsPierced 50 F
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Why I love Blood   2/20/2006

There is an interesting gender difference in blood sports. More women than men seem to be involved in blood play. Before I state My case, I want to say that I think men are capable of understanding and excelling at blood sports. I know many men who thoroughly enjoy and revel in blood play. If you are a man, that does not mean you cannot or do not enjoy blood. However, I think that the ...


2 Comments, 244 Views, 13 Votes ,6.50 Score
SirR_LadyM 61 C
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the meaning of collars?   2/14/2006

We are both fairly new to the lifestyle although we have been together many years. We have Sir has mentioned coloring me. I would like and need opinions on what a collar means. Thank you. (Lady_M)


1 Comments, 91 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
CNYDomMale 65 M
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Female chastity   1/22/2006

I have a part time female who has a high desire towards enforced chastity. What is the best belt to obtain, and how long can a woman be forced to wear the belt. Is there really such a thing as 24/7 for a woman?...thanks


0 Comments, 173 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
slaanesh4_69 60 M
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Why Crossdress?   1/22/2006

That is a question I often ask myself. Still working on the answer, but I believe it has a lot to do with being addicted to sex in general. I see that women that dress sexy or act even a little slutty inspire and attract intense sexual desire. They get all the sex that they want, and then some! They get the most attractive men and also draw the attention of even the other hot ladies. ...


4 Comments, 194 Views, 18 Votes ,3.26 Score
LikeToPlay172 36 M
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The Demand for Doms and subs   1/17/2006

I couldn't find a better category to put this in, so I'll put it here. <br> Hav you noticed in your time on ALT.com that thereare more subs or doms in your area? Whih seem to be in the greatest supply to you? <br> Also, which do you think is more deirable, a young woman who wants to be a sub or dom, or a young man who would prefer to do the same thing? <br> ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
watersports73 51 C
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Is sex truly hard to find?   1/15/2006

I was just wondering, is sex that easy to get?My wife and I are an attactive couple in our thirtys, and we have been on this site for about 6 mo. and no real play. Is there something we could do to bring more interst to our profile? We know that there are hot momen in our range of distance but we haven't recieved much in the way of dating invites. If there are any suggestions please feel ...


2 Comments, 233 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
Phoenix_flame 60 F
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Why   1/10/2006

I have begun to take exception with what I am hoping is indiscriminate winking and initiation messages. I am a large woman who owes no one appology for that fact. I state clearly in my profile that my body type is "large" and my photo does not hide that. Let me say that I do understand that it happens... You get looking at profiles and something appeals to you so you hit that wink button ...


5 Comments, 213 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
submarinar 65 M
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Wise stuff   1/5/2006

Please indulge me as I attempt to share a few bits of what I've learned as the ages have passed.... <br> If outweighed by a ton or more, yield right of way. <br> <br> Never be afraid to admit when you're wrong...the shock of you doing so might just shut the bastards up! <br> <br> Life isn't fair...if it was, I'd have a lot more money and be MUCH ...


0 Comments, 944 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
sandi7 53 F
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Men should contiue to work out   12/15/2005

I am an attractive woman in my early thirties, and though I like men my age, I find tht younger men have in general, nicer bodies. It seems that when most men turn 30 they seem to start getting a spare tire around their middle they typically don't do anything about it. Younger men in their 20's seem more dedicated to working out and keeping themselves looking good, and even though they ...


0 Comments, 153 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
DeepInsideUrHead 43 M
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Emotional Ties   12/12/2005

I am a normal (pun intended) 25 year old man. I am college educated, and I also apply my time, effort, and energy to focus on automobile racing. I say this because I hope that I am a rounded individual. Rounded men make good lovers I say. The reason for this, is because we do not just focus on sex, or BDSM, but Life in general. <br> You may ask where I am going with this ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
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Tips to spotting a bogus profile   12/10/2005

We've gotta help each other out. We end up wasting more time dealing with bogus profiles than we do finding good matches. <br> <br> Watch out for profiles with a "hot" pic, but no characteristic information filled out. <br> <br> Another bogus one is where they direct you to a website outside of Adult FriendFinder. These also can make you ...


2 Comments, 168 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
Empress_Victoria 54 F
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Reply to fiery16 regarding "When do we begin to loose brain cells?"   11/30/2005

fiery16's post: <br> The brain reaches its maximum weight at age 20 - about 3 pounds. Over the next 60 years, as billions of nerve cells die within the brain, it loses about 3 ounces. The brain begins to lose cells at a rate of 50, 000 per day by the age of 30. <br> E.Vie's reply: <br> The maximum weight of the brain varies from person to person and does ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes
bayboundse2 53 C
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Trolling who is to judge?   11/25/2005

First off lets define "Trolling" or "Troll".. It is not a ugly hairy brute who lives under a bridge and eats goats (although Im sure a few fit this definition). A "Troll" in this context is: Someone who goes into chat rooms for the purpose of finding someone. They could be looking for "sex right now", "cyber sex right now", or even just trying to meet someone who fits their "ideal person". ...


5 Comments, 186 Views, 16 Votes ,2.39 Score
MidnightDragoon 38,1938 C
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Just wanted to say HI :)   11/25/2005

We just wanted to say hi. This is the first time we've posted anything. How is everyone doing? <br> I was wondering if anyone could tell me how they started learing? <br> <br>


1 Comments, 75 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
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Ooops...who are you?   11/23/2005

Okay, you've waded through and found a good one. But, when you get in person, they don't look like the pic they gave you. I don't mean the old, "Here's my cheerleading picture in HS." I mean, someone who has let themselves go a bit from just a few months...What are your best getaways?


3 Comments, 579 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score