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the flip side of the wannabe doms 1/20/2007
These are the flip side of the wannabe doms--the people
who're so desperate to find a dominant that they'll
stick anyone into that slot. Upon learning that someone
is a dom, the Desperate Subbiess immediately assume that
this person will automatically want to dominate them,
and will run up to anyone they see who even remotely looks
the least little bit dominant with "Oh, Master, I'm ...
0 Comments,
61 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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odds 1/19/2007
what are the odds of meeting someone on this site just curious
1 Comments,
279 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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whos a happy puppy then!! 1/14/2007
before any more people say that ALT.COM doesnt work i want
them to know that ive met the most amazing girl in the world
through here.shes beautiful, a real angel!!and shes
made my life worth living.i found her on alt via a friend
as ive had problems viewing profiles so my friend spoke
to her and suggested that she contact me.she did and here
we are, the happiest people around the planet.
...
7 Comments,
163 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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for the ladies to repond to,,,, 12/17/2006
i would like to meet a lady to discuss the lifestyle, ,, from
her point of view, ,, just good intelligent conversation, ,, relaxed
atmosphere, ,, how is the best way to ask them if they will
meet for coffee and good conversation?
1 Comments,
100 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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safe sex 12/12/2006
do peaple think it inaproriate to ask for a docters certificate
from peaple your interested in
4 Comments,
192 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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Question / Answer 12/12/2006
I know things aren't cheap and work done calls for payment
given!!!
My thing is this; With all the influx of new people on alt,
Especially those in the Ts/Tv/Cd community wanting the
life altering change that new boob, face or genitalia will
give, (trust me its great)!!!!! and If you are lucky to have
a SO or friend that is kind is even better!
...
2 Comments,
294 Views,
11 Votes
,5.41 Score
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Munches, Events, Demo's, Parties, oh my! 12/11/2006
Participating in a bdsm group in your r/t community has
many benefits. Submissives meet other submissives, Dominants
meet other Dominants and submissives.. and it gives us
a chance to be around non judgemental others that are like
minded. A great sense of belonging can come from these types
of meetings. They usually come in the form of munches, events,
demo's, and play parties.
...
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162 Views,
8 Votes
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Mistress's Contract with slave 12/2/2006
This is a sample Mistress / slave contract that I worked
on for those that might feel the need for such a document.
It is ment as a basic form that Should be modified to fit individuals
<br>
<br>
Mistress's Contract with slave
<br>
This is a binding contract in which, (slave), agrees to
assume a (slaves) role
in the relationship with ...
2 Comments,
255 Views,
19 Votes
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where have all the clubs gone? 11/27/2006
I am looking, per my masters instructions, for a BDSM club
in the Chicago area. Are there any? Or is it mainly private
parties?
<br>
Thank you
0 Comments,
77 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Manners in the Rooms 11/11/2006
When you are chatting in the room, please please please
if you have a observation about someone... Dont say it and
then not back it up with facts. That is petty and rude.
2 Comments,
27 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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to wink or not to wink... 10/23/2006
if someone sends you a wink, dont you think it should be acknowledged?
i have been doing alittle research on this subject and have
found that most winks are never acknowledged. i understand
that some people may receive alot of winks and responding
to all would become difficult. i also understand that there
may be no interest in the person sending the wink. it is my
feeling that a person ...
2 Comments,
53 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Girls night out 10/22/2006
Two women friends had gone out for a Girls Night Out, and
had been decidedly over-enthusiastic on the cocktails.
Incredibly drunk and walking home they suddenly realized
they both needed to pee. They were very near a graveyard
and one of them suggested they do their business behind
a headstone or something. The first woman had nothing to
wipe with so she took off her panties, used them and ...
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346 Views,
12 Votes
,2.62 Score
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At the End of the Night....... 10/13/2006
Here is a scenario I address to everyone I meet. I have asked
people who live a BDSM lifestyle or a Chocolate/Vanilla
one. Their response is their opinion and everyone has one.
This situation can pertain to almost all. I believe that
everyone/anyone should be able to relate in one fashion
or another. There is no right or wrong answer. Your response
is your view/opinion and everyone has ...
1 Comments,
186 Views,
14 Votes
,5.54 Score
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"Life as a bottoms' Top" 9/9/2006
Hello thank you for taking the time to read this rambling.
I was married to a Male Marine for over twenty years and after
all that time of (if I may modestly say) perfecting my talents
as a bottom – I find my preferences to be more toward get some
hunger hole (mouth or ass) and mercifully cramming it full
to my satisfaction with my fat dick. This is not to say I do
not enjoy the same at ...
1 Comments,
84 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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shemale cocksucking 9/3/2006
Has anyone performed oral on a shemale? Do you prefer her
to be smooth or is a bit of hair ok with you?? i had my first
r/t, and i prefer her to be as smooth as possible, and i'd
be willing to do the same thing if she wanted it.
1 Comments,
253 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Pictures and Problems 8/10/2006
Just wanted to write a brief note here and ask a simple question.
How is it that a large number of subscribers to ALT don't
place a picture in their profiles (which is their choice),
but become irate if you don't have one? It seems that
those who choose to not upload a picture should not voice
their displeasures that others who choose to do the same.
<br>
I light of all the ...
9 Comments,
414 Views,
19 Votes
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Getting to know someone. 8/8/2006
I refer to my previous article about people e-mailing you
& then disappearing:
Is not polite & respectful to just let that person know
that they are no longer interested & are moving on,
maybe it's me(perhaps i'm old fashioned in some
ways).
1 Comments,
102 Views,
1 Votes
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Time wasting! 8/7/2006
Would somebody please tell me why it is that some people
on here feel it's great to get in contact, so you get
chatting with a few e-mails back & forth, & then
just drop off the face of the planet?
If there's one thing that does annoy me it's people
who aren't honest & reliable!
Correct me if i'm wrong but isn't this site meant
to be for people looking to find new friends( no matter ...
1 Comments,
122 Views,
0 Votes
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is anal stim. normal for a straight 20 yr male 7/7/2006
I am a 20 yr old male who likes to put fingers or sex toys in
his pooper. i discovered this at age 17 when i was online
and some girl told me to finger my ars while i was cybering
with her right before i came. since i am an honest guy from
indiana with pics on profile. i did what she said and came
so hard i mean it hurt a bit for a while. but now i am 20 and have
been doing anal play for a ...
1 Comments,
163 Views,
3 Votes
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February - The month of Love 7/3/2006
Valentine’s Day – A day for cards, flowers, (gardenias
or white roses), expensive dinners, champagne (or in my
case sparkling cider), aromatic candles, “I love yous”,
red furry handcuffs and “please beat me!”
<br>
The significance of this day can overwhelm a person if you
have no significant other to pledge undying adoration
or vice versa, exchange a valentine beanie ...
1 Comments,
153 Views,
6 Votes
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When the student is ready.... 7/3/2006
The teacher will appear. And that he did in the form of my
first lover in 1999. He exposed me to BDSM and delicious
sex. Sadly, he passed into the universe on 2/28/2006.
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I will never forget all the lessons he taught me, the difference
he brought to the mundane life I was living and the pain both
emotional and physical that was endured during the relationship.
I referred ...
3 Comments,
345 Views,
11 Votes
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From the "What the Fuck Files" 6/29/2006
Here’s another one from the “What the fuck files.”
You’re trolling through the profiles and you come across
one that sounds nails on perfect for you. Right age, gender,
close in distance, similar likes, and no disqualifiers.
Perfect. Their profile reads like something you might
have written.
So you write a nice letter, informational, polite, addresses
the issue ...
0 Comments,
101 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Anal Play 6/23/2006
I am very new to this life style and would really like to experiment
with anal play, any pointers out there how t make it more
pleasureable.
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0 Votes
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ALLOWING ANYONE IN 6/22/2006
Its a shame that we have these in here promoting
there pay web sites and that this site is not looking into
this more. This site should be open to us in the lifestyle
and to the others who are looking for enjoyment. But to write
back and bullshit you about wanting to meet and when they
want you to visit a website which requires payment is total
crap to me. But to each there own this is ...
2 Comments,
102 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Shaved or natural 6/22/2006
What do women prefer? Men that are shaved or natural.
2 Comments,
314 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Financial Humiliation 6/17/2006
What the hell is it? And how do you come about financially
humiliating someone?
Do you take their credit cards and run them up to their limits?
Write a bunch of bad checks? I had a member email me about
this.
2 Comments,
236 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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In tune with your submissive? The dominant is the one calling the shots. What does the dominant care 6/15/2006
Believe it or not, the dynamics of a BDSM relationship are
often driven by the submissive, not by the dominant. The
submissive sets the limits; the submissive decides what
places can and can not be explored; the submissive has the
ability to call a halt to the scene. The dominant, in many
ways, is simply a facilitator. It's the dominant's
job to create a setting where the people involved ...
1 Comments,
154 Views,
3 Votes
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Clothespins? 6/12/2006
Yes. You use them to...well, maybe we'll get into that
in the "How" section.
The point is: Just tying somebody up is boring. The fun is
in the stuff that goes with it. When you're restrained,
you have this delicious feeling of helplessness, your
lover free to do anything to your vulnerable body...it's
fun!
(Incidentally, there's more than one way to tie somebody
up. When ...
0 Comments,
1084 Views,
49 Votes
,3.84 Score
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just how many leo's are on this site??? 6/8/2006
It seems like 8, or 9 times out of 10, when I look at a womans
profile she's a leo and I am curious(curiousity killed
the cat, yeah, I'm a leo too) to see just how many leo's
there are here on ALT.
5 Comments,
96 Views,
1 Votes
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asshole 6/6/2006
I just wanted to post a general message about Antipode.
He has a profile posted on this site. I never went looking
for him or tried to contact him and then out of the blue, he
emails me to tell me that I am a fat blob. There was no need
for that other than trying to make me feel like shit. Hope
it makes him feel like a big strong man. More like a little
fucking pussy, because after he sent ...
4 Comments,
431 Views,
17 Votes
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