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TLAKESR 45 M
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WOMEN   1/28/2008

There sure are a lot of good looking women on here right?


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TLAKESR 45 M
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profile views   1/21/2008

Why do some people look at your profile several times, but never message you?


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TLAKESR 45 M
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What're the 100 things men have said about women?   1/21/2008

My advice lines here are simply this: If I want to comment about women, I 1st think of my Mum-a good woman. Are you like that too?


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missT 72 F
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Homemade Cock and ball torture   1/10/2008

I am a dom female, who deals only with male slaves <br> I come from a time when ?Nice girls don?t? ruled every decisionand action and the sight of a woman entering an adult bookstore was the gossip of the whole town. But that doesn?t mean that I couldn?t and didn?t find tools to practice my obsession. I still find that I favor ?homemade? devices over the expensive items in the ...


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Knobtopolish 74 M
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Looking for the Submissive   12/19/2007

The most difficult thing is to find the Submissive that is shall we say not a total freak.

I like people to be regular people except when I want them on thier knees or ready to take my cock in thier ass or pussy.

I do not find piercings at all sexy and tatoos, (Call me old fashioned) belong on Marines. If I could make the rules I would have an 80 year old Marine sitting in every ...


3 Comments, 106 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
miss_g_vous 53 F
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the last straw   12/2/2007

Alone craving the touch of the one that makes my heart skip a beat, to feel the brush of his flesh on my own. To be naked before him hoping that today he will see the devotion and the love that I hold for him. It seems that he is blind to those cravings that I hold in hope. I long for the moment when the words he has uttered in moment of uninhibited, honesty will be repeated in the clarity ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
satans_bad_seed 67 M
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truck stop moment   11/17/2007

if im lyin im dyin..this aint a joke ..just reality jerkin its head. comming outta the restroom at a truck stop in tenn, rounded the corner comming out of the hall. almost bumped and overweight lady bout 60 yrs old. i said was sorry as we passed, outta the corner of me ear(the good one) thoughti heardher say something bout my mother and marital status at my birth. let it fly (i was in tenn). went ...


1 Comments, 243 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
lonelysweetboy22 42 M
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IS IT GOOD TO HAVE SEX AFTER DRINKING??   11/9/2007

HEY ALL, I JUST WANT TO KNOW IS IT OK TO HAVE SEX AFTER GETTING DRUNK?? I HEARD THAT MEN ARENT AS EAILY AFFECTED BYTHIS AS WOMEN BUT I WANT TO GET YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS MATTER AS I HAVE BEEN GANG WHILE DRUNK WHEN I WAS 15...YES IT WAS A RESULT OF BEING DRUNK..


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PJALT2 63 M
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Do people ever get in touch with another member, just to say 'nice pictures', or 'good article'   10/17/2007

The ethos of the site is always going to be about sexual contacts, but it doesn't take too much to just contact someone to say 'nice profile pictures', or 'I like the way you express yourself', or 'good magazine article'.

are all females and couples *so* jaded by repeat contacts from males, that they can't even accept a straight-up compliment?

In one case, I wrote to ...


4 Comments, 66 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
_MichaelAngelo 58 M
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All men are liars, players, cheats and users?   10/14/2007

To read the forums and to read alot of female profiles, and, anecdotally, hearing alot of female conversations, you could easily get the impression that women really don't like men much at all, and that they have no redeaming qualities whatsoever.

Certainly, some profiles make you wonder why they are looking for a man in the first place.

So I would like to ask the ladies on here ...


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zennflower 61 F
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I found my lifestyle choice in the Diagnostic Manual for Mental Illness   9/16/2007

Dependent Personality disorder is defined by a need to be taken care of. Those with the disorder display dependent and submissive behaviour patterns, wanting others to make their decisions for them. Even the simplest everyday decisions seem daunting, and individuals seek constant reassurance and advice from others. Criticism and disapproval easily hurts those with the disorder and they usually ...


1 Comments, 95 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
Maestro05 49 M
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Phases of BDSM   9/16/2007

People are always wanting to know what are the steps in BDSM. They are disappointed to learn there are no real steps or stages in BDSM, everyone does things in different ways and everyone develops feelings and emotions related to BDSM in different orders. Here is the best I can come up with--phases of BDSM:
The awakening- You have some feelings, more often than not, feelings ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,5.84 Score
shylahnewT 67 T
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Any T-Girls in Northeast Arizona?   8/21/2007

Hello everyone. I would like to find a sister in Arizona who I can do things with and learn from her advice and experence. <br> Also anyone visiting Arizona who would like to meet would be heaven also.


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Maestro05 49 M
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BDSM 101   8/8/2007

Many of you have written me and ask that I provide some basic information on the basics of BDSM. Hope this helps.
D/S, S/M and B/D are the terms most often used in society today. They are distinctly different in that D/S stands for Dominance and Submission, S/M stands for Sadism and Masochism while B/D stands for Bondage and Discipline. These are three distinctly different life ...


3 Comments, 294 Views, 16 Votes ,6.51 Score
Truth__Seeker 66 F
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Mummification - Saran - cling wrap - liquid latex ...   8/7/2007

What I offer in this article is from personal experience and MHO. I welcome any and all additional information on liquid latex, latex and especially saran bondage. Thank you. ~ Seeker

Mummification can be a tremendous addition to ones bondage activities as the one surrendering has little, if any, room to move and feels (basically) a total captive. It also ...



1 Comments, 146 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Dom4Slave2Use 60 M
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Submissive's Rights   7/7/2007

As a Dominating guy I believe a submissive is here to serve me for MY pleasure and use. I don't agree with subs having limits. Are they trying to dictate to me what I can or can't do? I'll decide if my sub as limits and I'll decide what they are. I don't agree with punishing a sub just cause I can but I will punish them for being tardy etc.


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fiveinch2 66 M
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Airports   7/7/2007

Has anyone ever heard of a man wearing a metal chastity device setting off the metal detector at an airport as he passed through? Did he he have to strip in front of the staff to reveal the reason for the alarm? Just thought I'd ask. Sounds like the most delicious public humiliation to me!


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paradiseear 61 C
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Swinging/Fetish parties - Suffolk/Essex   6/17/2007

Anybody know of any get togethers/parties of a swinging/fetish nature in our area. We are both new and so want somewhere with little pressure to get involved. Thanks.


3 Comments, 74 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
BeoWulf_Ont 53 M
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Stripper music   6/16/2007

STRIPPER TUNES: ~ Fast ~ After years of being a conniseur of the finest stripping available, I've composed a small list of my favorite 25 fast and slow tunes for the ladies to strut their stuff to.

Slow And Easy – Whitesnake Domino – KISS Looks That Kill – Motley Crue Tattooed Dancer – Ozzy The Stroke – Billy Squire The Zoo – Scorpions The Wanton ...



1 Comments, 63 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
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How much should you reveal about yourself...   6/14/2007

Hi,

I'm facing a dilema at the moment, about whether I should reveal all of myself, to a dom. Or whether I should edit myself.

I know your all going to think its lying, but I feel if I explain to him who I really am, he is not going to like what he sees and run for the hills.

Do you as a sub reveal your past to a dom? whether it is good or bad?

Have you heard ...


2 Comments, 127 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
colette77 46 F
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getting points   6/10/2007

This point thing is stupid. You cant do enough to get points... people are going to become point whores in the future.


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ilikesports 51 M
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how do you get a woman to wear lingerie?   6/10/2007

just curious?


2 Comments, 49 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
knightslave7 55 M
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When I was ten...   5/31/2007

...I took the bus to school each day. I was first on in the morning and last off after school. The second person on, and second to last person off, was Missy. She was three years older than me. That alone fascinated me (as older women still do to this day), as did the fact that she was a true platinum blonde and extremely busty even at that age. I really didn't care that she was snooty. In fact, ...


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cinful_one 65 F
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Submission Is Not A Gift.   5/6/2007

Now, before you start ranting and raving about that precious jewel kneeling at your feet offering you her heart and soul, let me shed a different light on things.
Personally, I'm not fond of the gift analogy. Submission - or dominance - is a desire, a need; one that is shared with your partner. It's not something you purchase, or make, and then give away.
I don't ...


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SlaveSeeker_1
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How to spot a want-2-be dom   4/21/2007

You can find these people all over the Internet--and, for a change, they're not mostly men. These people appear to be equal-opportunity offenders, and I've encountered about as many women as men who fall into this role.
These are the ones who believe that because they consider themselves dominant, the rest of the world should too. Many of them are often poorly socialized as well, ...


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TDYooper 70 M
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BONES   3/15/2007

I am looking for some general help, from my friends here... <br> I am looking for a special interest group, with in the groups section, that has to do with the subject of guys with larger an average equipment... I am looking for others who may be dealing with some of the same things I have run into... I would like to get into a group setting, so that we can all sit, and chat, ...


1 Comments, 183 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
phicky123 53 F
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Beach   3/6/2007

The province of Phang-nga is located some 788 kilometres from Bangkok. It covers an area of 4, 170 square kilometres.
Phang-nga is a province with two characters - land and sea - and packed with national parks that guard magnificent scenery with immensely different attractions.
Most famous is Ao Phang-nga National Park, a geological wonder filled with islets, sunken ...


2 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
joluke1 53 M
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Milfs-(Mothers i'd like to fuck).   2/28/2007

Milfs are in a class of their own. I mean, the sight of a mature woman with a gorgeous figure in tight ass jeans and thigh length boots-does'nt that just turn you on? They give you that look-you know the one-"you can look but you can't fuck". They know the torment they're putting us lads through. Milfs are in abundance in the Uk-especially solihull-(touchwood to be precise)-hell, they ...


3 Comments, 331 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
Truth__Seeker 66 F
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Public Play   2/22/2007

Public play I would like to address public play. Please keep in mind these are my humble opinions. I am not in any way referring to any particular group or person(s). I offer an alternative point of view.
I believe many take "public play" too literally. Rather than public play, they're "playing in public." Please allow me to explain how I ...



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stragglyslave 71 F
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i know You are but what am i?   2/9/2007

How does a slave know her place? i ask this because a Master, well is just that, a Master. If a Master loves anal done to Him does the slave call Him her DomAss? i wonder/ask because how come the slave becomes body parts only. Masters say, you are a cunt, a hole to be fucked...your mouth is a cock sucker, stuff like this. If the slave adores and loves her Master she really only wants ...


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