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Brandalynna 34 F
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my new Group Stepford Women/1950s lifestyle any one can join.   8/8/2018

please join and enjoy.





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2 Comments, 100 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
encinoman2012 53 M
6 Articles
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Looking at ourselves   8/4/2018

Regardless of your actual age, do you consider yourself to be an adult? <br><br> Now that I'm much older, I've asked myself this question often and I keep coming back to the same answer. Yes, always an adult, but with childlike optimism and trust. <br><br> What say you?


1 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
SultanTemujin 62 M
2 Articles
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Behind Gor, a ‘slave master’ subculture of sexual deviance   7/2/2018

Gor is a world not unlike Earth, though slightly smaller in size. It possesses three moons, and due to its different mass and size the world of Gor has a lighter gravity field than its counterpart, our Earth, making feats of seemingly superhuman strength into everyday occurances.

Upon Gor a man can jump higher, lift more weight, and throw rather heavy objects with great speed and force. ...


3 Comments, 83 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
rabbieburnsSep 60 M
2 Articles
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IM   5/6/2018

Is it just me or is IM becoming more and more obsolete?? <br><br> I find that all incoming messages are from people who I wouldn't want to chat with and all outgoing messages are ignored. <br><br> What's a guy to do to get some chat on here???


1 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
MastROfPupets 56 C
14 Articles
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The new "upgraded" ALT IMC is nowhere as reliable as the old IMC system.   3/16/2018

I have found the new chat system fails regularly. chats do not connect and fail part way through conversations regularly.

Does anybody else find this to be the case?


3 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
MastROfPupets 56 C
14 Articles
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When the ALT website "upgraded" did you loose any points from your account?   2/20/2018

When the ALT website "upgraded" did you loose any points from your account?

I setup my AdultFriendFinder and ALT accounts on the same date many years ago and because of that I had accumulated over 1100 points on both accounts.

Then the ALT site upgraded and my 1100 points vanished.

I ask ALT support if they could be replaced and was told bluntly NO.

I still have just under ...


2 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
dirtywhore2breed 50 F
3 Articles
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The Beast   11/18/2017

If you have netflix check out a movie called the beast, its something that is a big turn on.


4 Comments, 57 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
hrnycumboyslave 49 M
4 Articles
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why so nasty   7/29/2017

like sites like this chat share meet and enjoy others company. why is it so many put others down and so many fakes ruin good times.


2 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Zeus2512 71 M
166 Articles
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2 Pots   6/11/2017

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rik2066 57 M
5 Articles
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IM   5/21/2017

Is IM working right??


1 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
single_kink 53 M
1 Article
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Some thoughts on me, by me.   3/17/2017

I would be identified most by the label of "primal", in the endless descriptions of roles in the kinky community. I have reservations about categorizing myself by a single description, because the vast majority of people seeking to explore kink are completely molded by the opinions and experiences of variables outside of what they actually need. There are endless varieties of mental, physical, ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rabbieburns2014 62 M
1 Article
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Why so many fakes?   3/17/2017

I've not been on the site for long, but I'm getting fed up with the fakes on here!

I'm looking for a Mistress and all I seem to get are users sending mails back and forth and it ends with them asking me to go to another site to take out a one month subscription.

What's that all about?


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
rik2066 57 M
5 Articles
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Sluts   3/17/2017

Are there any sluts on here that are arround south yorkshire or will travel? Finding sluts seems to be very hard anyone else found this ? either they only talk about it and never meet or they are very rare just like 18 year old virgins lol


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
diaperslave78 50 M
1 Article
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being a diaper slave to you females   1/21/2017

what would you make me do as your diaper slave?


2 Comments, 118 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
TieYouSpredNaked 72 M
12 Articles
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Comfortable Bondage   1/8/2017

I use Suspension Ankle Cuffs to spread a naked sex slave's legs wide apart in the air, while she is bound laying on her back, to be used for her captors pleasure and her Erotic Pain. These ankle cuffs are much more comfortable than regular ankle cuffs. Comfort is important for extended sessions of Bondage CNC and Erotic Torture. Pain should only be given to sexual body parts, not ankles. I call ...


8 Comments, 114 Views, 20 Votes ,4.78 Score
submanbxl 68 M
11 Articles
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At first i followed the wrong path   1/6/2017

my interest in BDSM was first piqued about 35 years ago, when Soft Cell released 'Tainted Love'. i remember being transfixed by Marc Almond in his fetish gear. This led me to 'researching' BDSM in various bookshops in London, and what i found really excited me. my girlfriend at the time was quite sexually adventurous. She was short and extremely curvaceous with disproportionately large breasts. ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
tgrmfrs2 57 M
1 Article
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real ppl to scammers ratio   11/13/2016

wonder what would be the ratio of real ppl to scammers on this site


1 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Peg_Me_Please89 30 M
4 Articles
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Pegging   11/1/2016

For the longest time I have wanted a girl to peg me. Unfortunately there don't seem to be many girls that are interested. However I can't get the idea out of my head because it is so hot. I want to be able to get down on my knees with my face in a pillow while she fucks my little hole hard and makes me feel like a slut. I want to be able to ride her strap-on and grind on it. I want to lie on my ...


3 Comments, 75 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
pancha13piedi 49 M
10 Articles
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Being kinky   10/17/2016

I believe we are all kinky deep within ourselves. It may need to be brought out by a partner or forced out by a Domina. But when it is finally out true happiness overcomes us.


1 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
seekingsubpsl349 64 M
2 Articles
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bdsm   1/10/2016

Just think the first alternative lifestylers were the cavemen and women. He would drag her around by her hair and show the rest she was his. He did everything forbthe family. He was the Dominant and there was the occaissional female switch where she didn't mind the hair pulling and dragging around but she also took the club to smack him and keep him in line.This lifestyle has been with us through ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
buttlacky 76 M
10 Articles
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Key Holding   1/8/2016

I am a guy who has a need go be sexually restricted. However, I wonder what women get out of this. Is it just the kick of controlling or is there some additional attraction to holding the key? I'm speaking of general orgasm control here.


2 Comments, 28 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
7022rough7022 36 M
4 Articles
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Different Levels   9/29/2015

Doesn't everyone have different "levels" of intense they like to be at?


0 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
pancha13piedi 49 M
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bitchiness   9/29/2015

A bitchy woman is sexier due to her bitchiness, Lets face it the more bitchy the more we want her. If I look back to all my ex's or crushes I've had I was more intrigued and more turned on by the bitchy ones. Its a added ingredient of sexiness I can't resist


0 Comments, 17 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
PureSin 47 M
2 Articles
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why is it so hard to find a sub who is intrested in real meetings and not just online?   9/25/2015

why is it so hard to find a sub who is intrested in real meetings and not just online?


2 Comments, 40 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
slaveboytoy25 44 M
7 Articles
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mother in laws panties   7/17/2015

I dont know about everyone else, but something really turns me on when i am jacking of and cumming in my motherinlaws panties, especially when they are a little dirty, very hot..


1 Comments, 147 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
nowhome34952 64 M
4 Articles
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This site   5/31/2015

Im just wondering if anyone else is having a problem with people miles away or even out of the country sending emails, hotlisting. To me it doesn't serve any purpose and most are just wanting money to get somewhere or scams. I figured this site would have a better IT backing than it does as this site seems loaded with problems.


1 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
PureSin 47 M
2 Articles
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what is more easy?   5/22/2015

A Dom to find a sub, or a sub to find a Domme?


3 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
MsClassy4U 44 F
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A Sub School For Newbis   1/17/2015

I have opened a new chat for any and all, but it is basically for the newbs that have joined the alt site, and it is where they can come and ask questions that will help them to better understand the journey ahead of them. The room has over 300 people in the first 72 hours of being opened, and it has brought together many old and new Dom/mes and sub/slaves together to give knowledge to those ...


2 Comments, 103 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
Tammytrouble1986 38 F
2 Articles
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How long is too long?   1/17/2015

How long do think is too long to leave a slave tied up good tight and unable to move?


3 Comments, 168 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
buttlacky 76 M
10 Articles
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Vets Day Over Time   11/25/2014

Interested in hearing your views on how vets of different generations (or wars/conflicts ) are treated and viewed in their times. Have these views changed over time? My thought is that most generations of vets are appreciated and respected except for Vietnam vets. Many held them with distain back in the day.......but that seems to have changed to respect during current times. Your thoughts?


1 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes