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LetzMasturbate 59 M
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Just something for management to consider.........   11/22/2004

Im not looking for a free ride but I might become a paying memeber much faster if I could view more of whos on this site, similar to the way its possible on Alt's sister page. Too many times Ive paid for memberships on other sites just to discover that there were a total of three (very burned out) prospects for me to try and get a typed word in to them edge wise to them. Not knocking this ...


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LEARN69 58 M
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TS TV TG.... etc   11/20/2004

They are nice, so nice.. Yet could any one please specified what TS, TV, TG, etc mean? I guess many others don't know the different between these! Thanks for all


1 Comments, 37 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
masternslutsub 68 C
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READ PROFILES   11/19/2004

I dont no if anyone has had the problem that we have had. Our profile says no sex with others. So y do we get people asking us to swap. We state that we do NOT do sex with others. PLease read n note wot profiles say. It saves time on both parts.


1 Comments, 20 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
boytohave 42 M
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Any Porn Info out there?   11/18/2004

I was just wondering if anyone form the ALt site knows, or is themselves, involved in the pornography industry, as I am curious about such matters. I am curious in a multifaceted perspective on the porn industry. I am not merely interested on the talent aspect or acting, although it is part of my query. I am seriously considering researching a career in pornography and have no idea or how ...


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MasterSnowBeard 70 M
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Tantra and BDSM   11/18/2004

I would like to start a discussion About the combining of Tantra and BDSM And would like to hear from O/others that do the same. _______________________________________________ I many time use tantra and BDSM together. While I might do things a little different than some. I like the connection of a tantric connection with the sub that I am playing with .... and spend some time ...


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LEARN69 58 M
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Photos   11/17/2004

At this site, some post their photos, some don’t. Those who post photos, they either keep it "ordinary", or porno type. Here we get three type of participation in this respect. Which one do you think is the best? To make it more specific, let’s us say which one is best in serving the Add.? I think more than one answer would be responding to this question. Each would look at it from ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
steve1172 52 M
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Can a sub be a successful switch?   11/16/2004

I have often wondered whether or not a lifestyle sub can become a dom for the right person. I am a sub and enjoy a varied and exciting lifestyle with excellent female doms. I would also like to try my hand as a dom to a willing female sub. Hence the question. There are two sides to this question. The first you could argue is that a true and succesful dom is born. That you can not ...


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shornone 51 M
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Role Playing Qs   11/13/2004

I'm new to this <6mos. and am trying to branch out into role-play. My question is, how do you aproach this with someone new? I've been in relatioships (more than 3 mos.) and it always seems to be an issue. The minute school girl or boss employee comes up, they recoil like i've suggested something horrible. so here's my delimma, when's the right time and how should i ask? I just want to ...


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_starfire 59 F
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view on the Chronicles of the Chat Police   11/13/2004

Hello i have seen much in alt and although i may not always agree i do understand in a sense how things occur. Alt has been through many changes and quite frankly not all of been for the benefit of it's members,but alt is a money maker. Frustration and anger has derived from not being able to have access to profiles unless you become a paid member. So blindly people are ending up asking for ...


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spanknlick 62 F
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pain, humiliation, and cum   11/12/2004

yesterday i took off work to meet with a friend of mine - he called and asked if i wanted to meet him for some fun. i said sure, and he gave me directions to his new house. i got lost on the drive over, and when i got there, he was waiting for me, outside, in the driveway, with a wooden paddle in his hands. he said i'd be punished for being late, and he told me to open my blouse so he could ...


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gswinem 84 C
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Are Couples handles hard for others to get?   11/12/2004

Is it confusing for other when we use our handle? I am a male Maste and she is my sub. When trying to contact new people should I add our profile to the email. These are the questions of someone new to the site not the lifestyle. Just intrested on how it comes accross from one screening other profiles or introductry emails. Are people likly to disreguard couples?


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tiger_2004 53 M
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pic   11/11/2004

i want see all woman online to talk all


1 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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On Being A Dominant   11/11/2004

A Dominant here on alt recently posted an article that has somewhat restored my faith in that population, something sorely tested by all the Dom wannabees who all claim to have a clue. I find that some Dominants here have a sense of self entitlement that won't quit. They even have the gall and audacity to command that a submissive follow orders prior to even meeting them. What happened to ...


3 Comments, 87 Views, 24 Votes ,6.54 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Re: Fear Of Sex   11/11/2004

We believe what we tell ourselves. We need to pay attention to the messages we send to ourselves regarding who and what we are. I noticed that the author of this article percieved himself as being someone who wouldn't be viewed as desirable. If he were to flip that mindset and instead tell himself, I am someone others find appealing then perhaps others might well define him as such. His ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
anaconda304 64 M
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Are they real   11/5/2004

Tell me are there any real woman on this sight. That do no what they want. Or are they all just here for a cheap thrill they say one thing but don't mean what they say. this has been one big joke.


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Gerzax 67 M
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Want to be a Sub   10/28/2004

I have a fantasy of being used by a woman. I'd like to be tied down and teased. Being helpless, while a woman has her way with me is a big turn on. I'm hoping to forfill my fantasy here on Alt.


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Tyler-Rose 55 F
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Response to: What Is Real Time   10/26/2004

It is a failing of the human psyche that definitions are made to suit one's self and the cry of "judge not lest ye be judged" used to justify that tailored definition. <br> Real means you do this stuff, not just typing it online with little intention of actually doing with anyone. <br> Online, typed domination, while an intense experience (if done well--which it RARELY ...


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Exigo426 41 M
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JUs love to meet for sex   10/25/2004

I would just love to meet in a hotel room and have sex adn no other relationship but sex, i mean i cant get that anywhere in Dade City i would just like to be contacted and said come to this hotel room at this time and just be fucked over and over again.


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Miss_Coco30 50 F
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Re: Gold member ripped off   10/19/2004

I also agree that the charge for standard members to contact the premium members was ridiculous, and hopefully that option will be eliminated soon. Premium members pay enough to gain full access of this site, so what the standard members should do to be on an even scale with the premium members is to obtain the additional points needed to get to that level.


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shvedpussy4u 63 F
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Group Section   10/18/2004

Does anyone know where the link for the group section went? It was there until Alt started rearranging the Home page. HELP !!!


1 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
BDSMSake 57 C
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Where are all the real submissives on Alt?   10/18/2004

Where are all the real submissives on alt? As I read through people's profiles I see profile after profile that talks about sex, but it seems theres very few that talk about the BDSM lifestyle. I am just looking at the wrong profiles? I love sex as much or more than any man, but I also enjoy flogging and dominance, and all the other wonderful activities that BDSM involoves. Is there anyone ...


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SMF4EVER 54 M
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Why is alt . com Different from other dating sites   10/16/2004

Well, the answer is ......... It doesn't really seem to be any different! Why ? Most of the women who list never answer thier mail. But You can't blame them, it seems that there are a lot of horney older guys trying to get laid by young women! <br> Is not "ALT" a different way of life. Does it not take place in your thoughts, mind , etc. <br> Why is age important, ...


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h0tsexguy 53 M
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DAY 2 Chronicles of the Chat Police   10/16/2004

OMFG, so I finally had a GREAT night talking to many people on the central canadian chat...really nice people finally. One guy was even an American Vietnam veteran who liked calling me bro and we struck up a great friendship! <br> So I really was on too long..laugh it was 5 am...and Hammertime(from US) was about to leave when Mistresssarah shows and asks if we are intersted in a ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score