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TallNKinkyGuy 47 M
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Some Talking Points on Morals and Morality   3/8/2005

-While there is a universality to morals that transcends society, culture and religion, sex and sexual acts, absent transgression of other morals, has nothing to do with morality. <br> -Only individual acts are immoral. We cannot sweepingly categorize morality. Sex as a "category" has nothing to do with morality. <br> -Nudity is a natural thing. While some may take ...


5 Comments, 139 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
2lonely1 78 M
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Cut or not?   2/25/2005

Hi all, <br> Here's another post from that troublemaker who keeps bringing up things that upset those who suffer from sds....serious dom syndrome. Hold on. This isn't in the rants and raves section, so it really isn't a rant or a rave. <br> I would like to get some comments on.......hold onto your butts, people.....circumcision of the male penis. <br> ...


3 Comments, 265 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
LoreleiS 60 F
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My Reasons for being into Fantasy & Roleplay   2/22/2005

When I was growing up, my parents were very liberal, and they didn't portray sex as dirty or bad. But my parents had self-esteem problems. From their unintended example, I learned to devalue myself. And when you believe in your own worthlessness, it's very hard to believe that you deserve pleasure or happiness. <br> So even though I wasn't saddled with any religious anti-sex ...


2 Comments, 473 Views, 18 Votes ,4.76 Score
submarinar 65 M
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Circles and lines   2/18/2005

Okay, standard apologies for not making much sense here...but some things have been going thru my mind today, and as I'm stuck at work for the thirteenth hour, I feel a need to purge. <br> This thing that some call BDSM.....seems to be mostly about opposites. Top and bottom, Master and slave, domination and submission, pleasure and pain...ahh, there's the rub. The joining of ...


0 Comments, 120 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
phil56 67 M
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Hairy or smooth   2/12/2005

Here is a question I pose to all-Do you like a guy who is hairy(arms, legs, chest, balls) or do you prefer a guy to be smooth? Please-all reply.


1 Comments, 75 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
2lonely1 78 M
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We have to do something!   2/8/2005

To all readers of various categories of the magazine: <br> I would be the last one to want to gang-up on somebody, but this moron, who goes by the handle of SANTA...whatever, has got to go. <br> This asshole has submitted something like 68 articles to magazine sections, and they are totally inappropriate to to this site. Politics, war, government, blah, blah. <br> ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
dkrlbb 49 C
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Can pierced nipples also be clamped?   2/6/2005

I am a male who has recently decided that I want to pierce my nipples, but I love having them clamped usually with heavy tight clamps. My question is if I pierce them will I still be able to clamp them as well or is there any danger with it? Has anyone else tried this/and did it work?


1 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
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SANTA;"Vicious.Ambush!73KIA,139WIA,Marines."   2/2/2005

SANTA[DEADLINE]Bad<feeling<Cold.beer: "I had bad feelings about this one, "recalled, Lance Cpl.George Schneider, of Foxtrot Co. "Whenever the brass give you cold beer before going out on patrol, you know SANTA, that the shit is going to hit the fan." Schneider's were prophetic, the area was one of the keys to control the five northern provinces of ...


1 Comments, 72 Views, 2 Votes
Old_Grizzly 78 C
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When Things Go Wrong, Do You Have A Support Group?   1/21/2005

When Things Go Wrong, Do You Have A Support Group? <br> I wanted to tackle this subject from when you have the first meeting with a new Dom/Domme, to when things go horrible wrong and the split is bad, bad, bad. In many cases a D/s & BDSM relationship can go off without a hitch and even when the relationship is ended there is no harm done. However there are dangers along the road ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
racecar3 62 M
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CONFIRM ID   1/14/2005

I think that this is a good idea for a lot of reasons, I am curious as to what others think of this. Is it a waste of time or what. I signed up and am waiting for mine to get back to me as well. let me know what you think.


1 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Tasteofreality 53 F
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Any ideas where I can start?   1/12/2005

I have been so interested in this lifestyle for some time now, meeting wonderful men and women esp on this site, everyone has been wonderful thus far. I would really like to start up my own internet based BDSM wear, toys, etc... business, can anyone suggest anything like as in where to look to start such a business.


1 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Alt's Response To Member Complaints   1/11/2005

I recently recieved an email from alt directing me to a link where I could set up my account to window out emails from those who weren't in my locale. I am no longer recieving email from members who aren't in my area. I appreciate alt's efforts to give its members this option. I would like to see alt establish an alt help room moderated by paid or volunteer admins who could offer ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
phil56 67 M
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leather lovers   1/8/2005

I have posted a group but in case anyone has missed it, I would like to get lovers of leather, latex, rubber and spandex, to get together for discussion and fun. All those in lower Fairfield County, CT. Please respond. Love to hear from you.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
SSpeigel 39 M
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shaving?   1/6/2005

Do the ladies like their men shaved down there? I mean shaved as in bald, or just trimmed?


0 Comments, 130 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Merry Christmas   1/6/2005

Merry Christmas to all here on alt in the magazine section and anywhere else on this site. The holidays afford us the opportunity to extend warm feelings and good will toward all within our circle and without. I value and cherish the holiday season. Being the age that I am, Christmas reminds me each year that some of my freinds and loved ones have moved on in their paths leaving me with ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
MistressKrystal3 63 T
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"Application for submissive" to Mistress Krystal   12/31/2004

I felt like showing My "application" process <br> "Application for submissive" to Mistress Krystal Kitty <br> I accept only completely good behavior and trustworthy people to my service. If I need to keep you in line I will drop you like old garbage. I am very good to my subs. and I expect them to deserve it! I'm can be very sweet and loving! But I am ...


2 Comments, 287 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
ASilentSeeker 62 F
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shit happens   12/29/2004

we all try to find THEE mate for us....albeit, the Dom or the sub. It isn't easy when you (me) want to be submissive but have a hard time finding the Dom with the knowledge and the intelligence to top me. It takes a strong Dom...and they are hard to come by. <br> Being a Dom doesn't mean that you just spank, whip or flog, it is having the mental attitude that You are extreme. ...


2 Comments, 47 Views, 17 Votes ,5.25 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Dishonesty here on Alt? No way lol   12/24/2004

Seldom does a week go by that I am not reading somewhere on alt that a member hasn't been ummm quite truthful when interacting with another member here. No surprise. Given the anonymity afforded online people can be anything or anyone they want to be. These deceptive and flagrant bs artists would seldom pull this with someone they met in a club but do so with impunity here. I have developed ...


1 Comments, 65 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
MistressKrystal3 63 T
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Mistress Krystal's make-up technique for beginners and experts alike   12/23/2004

These are the types of make-up instructions I tend to prescribe for those that have difficult or fine complexions of medium tone/color and how to mix and apply. <br> This works on just about anyone. For those with smoother and lighter complexions spread the base out as thin as needed. People with darker skin can adjust with slightly darker colors of base. For those with ...


2 Comments, 96 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
masternslutsub 68 C
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LIES (photos)   12/23/2004

I have recently had a strange experiance, i was chattin to someone who cliamed they had spoke to me b4 as someone else, after soting this out they sent a pic that the other person had sent them when chatting. Only to find the oic was in fact a pic of me taken off our profile. You can imagaine how odd it was. But i think that they must b so bad they need to use others pics. But its a form of ...


1 Comments, 158 Views, 19 Votes ,4.44 Score
fun4uetme 54 M
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100 reasons why it's great to be a guy...   12/21/2004

1.there is no #1 reason, and that's okay 2.Movie nudity is virtually always female 3. birth 4.A five day vacation requires only one suitcase 5.Monday Night Football 6.Belching is cool 7.Your bathroom lines are always 80% shorter 8.You can open all your own jars 9.Old friends don't give a crap if you've lost or gained weight 10.Dry cleaners and haircutters don't rob you blind ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
tom2303us2 63 M
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Finding a Sub   12/21/2004

I seek a Sub female to my Dom male , lots of women on Alt.com define themselves as 'sub' and lots are looking for a Dom male. therefore it must be extremely easy to find a match, or so you would think .OK we all know lifes not that simple , it never is in a vanilla lifestyle.I happen to be looking for a female for a bit of fun and friendship including a bit of bondage and a little spanking ...


4 Comments, 32 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Carohline_ 45 F
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Defining Your Role   12/17/2004

Please ignore the he/she stuff and reverse it if necessary. <br> Master-The dominant party in a Master/slave relationship. He has complete power, authority and control at all times in the relationship. He rules all things, runs all things, owns all things. Think of a plantation Master ruling his slaves. He is most always 24/7 and usually very strict in his level of control. ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 17 Votes ,5.95 Score
MultipleOgirl 70 F
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Does an enema really make you "clean"?   12/14/2004

OK..so I'm a newbie and I admit it. <br> I have been told that after receiving an enema that you are clean. I am reluctant to put anything...cock, fingers, or anything else...in my mouth after it has been in my asshole. Is it true that there would be no e coli or other health concerns from putting anything in your mouth if an enema is given prior to a scene? <br> ...


1 Comments, 190 Views, 9 Votes ,5.78 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Mutual Interest   12/14/2004

You recieve an e-mail from someone who you find to be appealing. Correspondence flies back and forth. Things evolve to the point where are exchanged. Ultimately you decide to meet. For some of us here on alt and other dating sites that meeting is the end of the road. The person who wrote us with such wit and style doesn't seem to have anything in common with the person sitting across from ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
stud1957 66 M
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Tied up handjob   12/12/2004

My ex used to tie me spread eagle to the bed posts and with her very sexy hands (red nails) slowly jack me off Sometimes she would let me cum, sometimes she would bring me to the brink and walk away with me begging and crying for her to finish me <br> It was very intense wondering if she would get me off or not and my best orgasms were achieved when she did this <br> ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 11 Votes ,6.35 Score
Tarrusk84 69 M
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Married   12/10/2004

I am married with a at primary school and I would consider my marriage to be a happy one, with one exception. The exception is my sex life which isnt good at all. We had 'normal' sexual relations until my came along and then my wife went off the boil, that was 11 years ago. We still have sex but on average I would say once a month, and having a healthy sex drive I would like it much more ...


3 Comments, 59 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
misterobvious 39 M
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Dreads or not?   12/4/2004

Since this is the general advice column, I figured I'd appeal to all for some advice. My hair as it is, is rather long. I have to do something with it, I've narrowed it down to 3 ideas. Cut it and spike it, grow it longer, or dread it. I'm leaning towards dreads for something different but a lil advice doesn't hurt, does it?


5 Comments, 80 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Meat Market Mentality   12/2/2004

I have come across yet another article from a gentlemen (?) on this site seeking to get laid. Sighs, don't these guys get it? A number of women on this site, myself included have put forth the effort via responses or comments regarding how we feel about such an approach. It smacks of usery and indicates the level of emotional maturity of the individual requesting it. This isn't highschool ...


3 Comments, 44 Views, 39 Votes ,5.76 Score
useme4relief 78 M
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getting nowhere   11/22/2004

I have been a member of alt.com for just a short while. I am a standard member.I wanted to see if is worth moving up.So far, it seems like there are a lot of talkers but no doers.Are there other sites that are compatable to alt.com and what are they or how do you get into them?


4 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score