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goodtimes42083 40 M
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Havn't been having any luck   8/9/2004

I havn't been having much luck with alt. I was wondering if anyone had suggestions in order to get more activity and more fun nights. So far all the girls I've met have been crazy or I just wasn't interested. I'm just trying to meet a cute thin nice girl with a hell of a sex drive! What should I do????? Any suggestions?? Either reply or send me an email. Thanks, Mike


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neek19 41 M
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Could you help me out of this closet? It sucks in here.   8/5/2004

Hi there. Im a twentyone year old guy living in the berkshires looking for a guy between the ages of 21 and 30 to drag me out of the closet Iv'e been living in my whole life. Im available and am seriously seeking some one to share myself with. I must admit Im a little aprehensive. Im looking for a soft Dom with a lot of compasion and a big heart. I see myself as being loyal, loving and easy ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 24 Votes ,5.63 Score
zelda99 54 F
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re: disability & dating   7/21/2004

She is the one with a disability. Physical disabilities like yours are minor - mental disabilities like hers are truly a problem - her problem, not yours! Move on and don't give her a second thought....


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MPLSTopman2002 48 M
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RE: If one having a slight disibilaty prevent a relationship.   7/17/2004

She was an ass and should not have accepted the date with you. I had to wrie as I too have a slight disability and have had similar experiences. However, I have been involved with a greater number of peoplee who honestly could not have cared. My advice is just keep your chin up. She knew she was treating you badly so you should have ignored her like you did. Good luck in future dates!


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jenny48 71 T
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Looking For A Real Time Relationship!   7/9/2004

Hi I am a submissive hot and sexy crossdresser insearch of a Dominate Female and I am having little luck finding anyone interested Iam really a very nice person just a little kinky and fun.I hope to find someone someday and hope for a lasting relationship.Please contacr me if interested.I promise you wont be disappointed.Love Jenny.


0 Comments, 121 Views, 35 Votes ,5.70 Score
LIVEDREAM22 51 C
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Making contact with swingers like Us!!!   6/29/2004

Hello there, this is LIVEDREAM22 we would love to make conact with those of you out there that share the same interests that we do. We are Semi-new too this and sure would like some help. Swing by our profile and see what you think people. Hope to hear from you all soon. <br> Keep it hot and erotic people, L and T


1 Comments, 39 Views, 27 Votes ,2.71 Score
Slave_H 46 M
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Requests for the next date?   6/14/2004

I finally found a cool DOMME!! <br> For our next encounter, she asked me to give some suggestions on a setting. <br> As we'll make a couple of pictures to be posted here, your proposals would be good for you, too <br> Any suggestions? <br> If not, it'll be some usual DOM/SUB setting, maybe something with male secretary... <br> ...


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koji10003 43 M
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i need real relation   6/12/2004

hi my sweet girl how r u ? i wich u r what i need , i looking 4 true realtion love, frinds, or sex as what u like to do


0 Comments, 23 Views, 28 Votes ,3.24 Score
unknown_guy17 38 M
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re: relationship w/ some one younger.   6/3/2004

well if she contacted u first, then there shoudln't be a problem. have u guys traded pics yet? if u have then she must like what she sees in u, and vise versa. but if u haven't, then maybe u guys should chat over the phone. see where she wants to go with u, relationship wise, and go from there


0 Comments, 47 Views, 49 Votes ,4.80 Score
Master_of_cyn 61 C
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Re: Best Place to meet new people   5/29/2004

If you are in to BDSM then just do a google search of BDSM Munches with the name of your city or the closest city. You can also google BDSM Clubs <your city> Look at the calendar of events and attend a local Munch. A munch is where people interested in BDSM gather at a restaurant for lunch, dinner or drinks just to chat and get to know one another. No Fetish wear is worn since ...


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brian352004 54 M
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Relationship with someone much younger.   5/20/2004

I've been talking to a girl online...but she's 15 years younger than me (I'm 36 and she's 21). Does anyone have any advise, good or bad experiences...etc. Any advise would be appreciated. Also, she is the one who contacted me first...so she must like older men.


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brian352004 54 M
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Long Distance.   5/20/2004

Do long distance relationships work? I talking with someone who lives an hour away...who also has small and cannot travel. A few of my past relationships were "weekend only" types. We would talk 3 or 4 times a week and spend weekends together...it lasted you 6 years. Does anyone have any ideas on how to make long distance work?


1 Comments, 116 Views, 51 Votes ,6.79 Score
kset2kx 51 M
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Best places to meet new people   4/28/2004

I am a single guy, 31 years old and all of my friends are married with . I am not into the bar scene so where is a good place to meet new people.


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LifesAdventure 38 M
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RE. Fake ID's   4/5/2004

The most likely places where this sort of scene would be, is in Bombday, Bangalore or Goa.


0 Comments, 46 Views, 26 Votes ,4.32 Score
wait4u2call 63 M
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10 questions you might ask to see how compatiable u are   3/17/2004

dont remember where this came from but i have used some of these questions to (feel out )a possible date works for both men and woman just use the right gender you will be suprised at what you find out remember it s only fair to answer them in return if she / he askes you what you feel <br> <br> <br> 1. What do you think is the biggest mistake that men ...


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wait4u2call 63 M
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10 questions you might ask to see how compatiable u are   3/17/2004

dont remember where this came from but i have used some of these questions to (feel out )a possible date works for both men and woman just use the right gender you will be suprised at what you find out remember it s only fair to answer them in return if she / he askes you what you feel <br> <br> <br> 1. What do you think is the biggest mistake that men ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 24 Votes ,6.65 Score
princess4pirate 74,1958 C
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The Four of Us   3/11/2004

We had our first "date" with another couple last weekend and it was great! Having a delicious dinner, listening to a guy on guitar at the perfect pub, wondering, if this is the strangest thing, or one of them, that I have ever done. The other couple was so nice, and we had so much in common too. But sometimes even with great sex, the chemistry is not perfect. I guess you have to think of ...


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RaineUK1 69 F
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How is dating done in the BDSM World?   2/24/2004

I consider myself a slave by nature. I havent had much experience in BDSM as I seem to only attract wannabes etc. I also do not have much experience dating even in the vanilla world. I have been a silver member thinking that it would be a better way to weed out the wannabes but it really isnt. I may not have a lot of experience but my gut tells me that one doesnt just jump into bed or into ...


1 Comments, 219 Views, 68 Votes ,8.51 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Re: Ratio   2/19/2004

This is in reference to the article from the ummm gentleman (?) I use that term loosely here, who said that "girls" on alt must be getting laid alot based on the gender ratio. Excuse me, the women, not girls, little man on this site aren't here to be served up like meat on a platter. Many of us are here seeking a like minded freindship, perhaps more with someone who isn't out looking for ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 25 Votes ,6.01 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Re: All Is Not What It Seems   2/9/2004

Malls are a great place for an initial meeting. There is typically security present and you are very well protected should something go wrong. No one should demand that you or anyone else, male or female engage in intimacy of any form on a first date. If they do this is a definite red flag and should motivate you to walk away as fast as your feet will carry you. While people do engage ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 35 Votes ,8.17 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Re: First Date Flatulence   2/9/2004

The proper (and humane) thing to do when moved to expel gas is to do so in the confines of a bathroom. There are many effective medications on the market to combat excessive flatulence, you should take your dates comfort into account and purchase one before the meeting. I personally would remove myself from the presense of anyone who felt that this gross and obnoxious behavior was ...


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leggyredhead 66 F
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Re: Is It True That Nice Guys Finish Last?   2/8/2004

Very complex question here with multi-faceted answers. Reality is we suceed or don't in a relationship based on the life experiences of the individual we are attracted to, and our own. Throughout life we develop relationship patterns which we re-enact on a continuim. This however isn't set in stone and we do have the option of looking for and at patterns to avoid repeating negative ones ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 24 Votes ,7.33 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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When Chemistry Just Isn't There   1/30/2004

You check your mail and find a message from someone who says they are very interested. After reading their profile you determine that their are enough commonalities to spark your interest and you reply. From there you progress to communicating via e-mail. If you continue to find one another interesting, are typically exchanged. At some point you decide to meet and choose a public place ...


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SweetThing34 54 F
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Re: Nude Photos   1/21/2004

Ok I have to agree with her right there. I mean I love a good cock shot however if you have nothing other than that to offer in the way of mystery why bother?

It makes me wonder if the cock shot is your only way of possibly getting a hit on alt. NOW I am NOT unreasonable I have talked to many many men that sit with empty mailboxes or porn crap that fills them, perhaps ...


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DaddyLottoOneWay 74 M
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Re: Facesitting   1/8/2004

Im an experienced Dom and I luv for my little girls to sit on my face. I always lie on my back and support their ass/hips with my hands as my arms are laying fat on the mattress. Perhaps its because I have strong arms I can always lift the woman off it gets to be too much but I really enjoy getting into the pussy that way. You get the other labia to lay flat on your face and get your ...


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BMs_Knitewolf 52 M
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RE: What's the best way.....   11/11/2003

you might want to put this in the 'Advice' area of the magazine, then it would be easier for people to respond and easier for you to read the responses.


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agirlatheart 56 F
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Didn't realize   11/9/2003

Silly me!!! I thought I was going to find articles here about dating...not fictional accounts of some "date" someone had. What's up with that? They should have a fiction section. Please...like I really believe the story about the girl on the bus, the other girl's "second date", the mistress that had a girl lick her shit in the bathroom. I just hope that most people who read these things ...


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Alohacovedreams 69 F
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RE: Re the BBW and breaking in a new slave   11/7/2003

I also found this story to be loathsome. I found myself in agreement with your opening sentences regarding this article, but then your critique took a disparaging turn and you too should know better--two wrongs don't make a right. <br> Alohacovedreams


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NoCyberDom 58 M
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Re: Finding REAL love along with lustful passions.   11/6/2003

In short, I was once lucky enough to have found that perfect love but curcumstances pulled us apart. 17 years later, I contacted her and found that at the exact day and time I felt compelled to find out whatever happned to her and looked up her phone number (I finally called about 3 days later), she had broken out a box with every letter I had ever written her and told her husband about the ...


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orchidsub 62 F
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Why do so many "Doms" have a cock pics on their profiles?   10/24/2003

Ok, Calling all "Dominants" that have a cock-pic as the main pic on your profile here and on other dating websites. i guess you dont know that a quality submissive will see that pic and move on. "Doms" that put pics of their cocks on their profile are into kinky sex and really have no idea what Power Exchange is truly about. 99% of Doms with cock pics are mostly into BDSM for sex. Most subs ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 45 Votes ,6.95 Score