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BrendaB 65 T
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What do you do when it happens (T's)   3/28/2005

The first time I transformed this issue came up my friend who I had know for years made comments about she-males he knew that I was changing one day it did come up sex of course, this was from someone who would never be gay in the usual sense strange but true gays aren't attracted to T's maybe a bi male oddly it is straits who decide they want a T. I guess we are the 3'd sex are not stuck ...


0 Comments, 289 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
Masterx1948 76 M
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Please !   2/1/2005

Hi! <br> I beg all of you who receive mail to answer it, even though you not interesting in further contact. Then we got an confirmation that you received the mail. I will also inform you that I still seeking a female slave, a slave by heart. <br> Thanks Masterx1948


1 Comments, 304 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
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Watching erotic time   1/5/2005

Does anyone else feel shy about their body, and performing in front of others? Is it something that one gets used to? my shyness is very appealing to my Master and He doesn't want me to lose it, but i wish that i wasn't always that way.


3 Comments, 409 Views, 35 Votes ,3.59 Score
devotenixxe 49 F
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Doctors need   12/27/2004

I seek, men who like to be a doctor, who like the sam things, which i need. Its very diffucult to find dominant ore sadistic men, who love medical also.


4 Comments, 560 Views, 29 Votes ,4.44 Score
Scotsmanusa 45 M
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Transferring from online to R/L dating   12/20/2004

I believe the online to r/l transfer to be a huge turning point in ones status in the lifestyle. Whether it be B&D, D/s or S&M - coming out of the closet (meaning online to r/l) is a huge step. For one to do this I believe a support group of local clubs, meetings etc. is essential and the support (in my case of local Dom/mes and subs) is extremely beneficial. What do you think about ...


1 Comments, 155 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Family meetings with Doms   12/19/2004

i have a question about introducing ones Master to meet their family. my Master is such a wonderful loving Man, what if i call Him Master in front of them? Is this a common problem for subs? How do O/others deal with it?


4 Comments, 421 Views, 30 Votes ,3.24 Score
trollboy 40 M
3 Articles
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Searching 4 my 1st mistress!   12/17/2004

Ive been interested in S+M and D+s for a long time. However, being young means i hav struggled to find any mistress willing to show me.i need to see how far i go and wat i can take.im very interested in spanking and strap-on sex.i live in orpington(near london and bromley)and i am willing to travel within london.if u wish 2 contact me, my email is ALT.com im begging you 2 guide me through ...


0 Comments, 138 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
Razorbldromance 37 F
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New to the site   12/15/2004

I, sometimes, find dating to be pointless. I am old fashioned in the sense that I wouldn't have "a friend with benefits", yet I hate the title that is added to dating. It only seems to add more complications to a relationship. <br> I know that I could easily have a "Fuck buddy", but I'm not exactly ready to go into that, if ever. I like to know the person and have equal respect ...


7 Comments, 412 Views, 38 Votes ,3.24 Score
mugshaw86 32 M
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Looking for a date in holland   12/11/2004

Hey I'm looking for a date in Holland, I'm looking for girls, woman or couples... I love bdsm, so please mail me if your intrested. <br> i'm also looking fot a cyber mistress. So please use me. ALT.com


0 Comments, 63 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
enchanteddreams0 46 C
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Just give up   12/10/2004

Just give up, why try anymore. Ive been looking for that extra somone to add to my life. Where is she. Ive been searching all over this country, from florida to washington state. yet no one. on this and all other web pages like alt.com all there is, is spam, or fakes, somone who wants to play games, or someone who isnt looking at all, but say they are. All I find are people who sound ...


0 Comments, 130 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
sexxyplaytyme 44 F
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MEETING THE PEOPLE YOU WANNA MEET   12/7/2004

I HATE MOVING TO A NEW TOWN, THERE ARE NEVER ANY PEOPLE FUN TO MEET. EVERYONE SAYS THEY ARE REAL BUT VERY FEW PEOPLE SHOW THEY ARE. I AM A WHITE FEMALE AND MOVED TO PALM SPRINGS ALMOST A YEAR AGO. I LIKE MY BLACK MEN AND IT SEEMS THEY ARE SCARCE HERE. I LOVE MEETING WOMEN TO BE FRIENDS WITH OR TO HAVE SEX WITH. I AM A HAPPY PERSON AND WISH EVERYONE WOULD STOP PLAYING THESE GAMES. LETS ALL ...


2 Comments, 234 Views, 36 Votes ,2.89 Score
stefany 52 T
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meeting a mistress   12/6/2004

i'm a 33 years old tv from holland are there any mistress who make me her maid/slut i like to wear latex, corsets, short skirts. i'm into forced feminisation. you can mail me on ALT.com love stefany


2 Comments, 442 Views, 35 Votes ,4.30 Score
tom2303us2 63 M
2 Articles
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Older lady   12/4/2004

i would like to find an older lady for sex , not the BDSM sort of thing you see on here every day , but kissing , a cuddle , petting , mastubation , or normal vanilla sex .OK a little bit of bondage or a little spanking would be nice .but mainly i seem to be developing a fetish toward older ladies. now I'm no toy boy (50 next year). are there any older ladies on this site? is any one over ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Individuals Who Date Others Who Don't Value Them   11/21/2004

We are all ultimately in charge of how we allow another individual to treat us. If we don't set limits and expect others to honor our boundaries some won't. Relationship patterns also come into play here. If during our cognitive shaping years we live in an enviornment where we are cared for and nurtured we grow up with healthy self esteem and expect others to treat us well. If we grow up ...


3 Comments, 570 Views, 90 Votes ,6.65 Score
DRGINGER 72 M
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re: why women date jerks   11/16/2004

It seems since women (and men) grow up in a patriarchal society (US) that deep down they are taught to expect to be denigrated by men. From personal experience and discussion with a few women they are attracted to men who treat them badly (verbally and physically). Men who are considerate, intelligent, compassionate and basically kind are relegated to be "best friends". Hopefully in my ...


3 Comments, 162 Views, 29 Votes ,5.85 Score
lebaneseslave 44 M
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if i meet mistress i will suck & lick not talk   11/9/2004

hello evryone here i ant to say i'm happy coz i be member here in this site.


1 Comments, 200 Views, 33 Votes ,3.88 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Players & The Games They Play   10/24/2004

You recieve an e-mail from someone on alt. After viewing their profile, you determine that they are someone who you have enough in common with to explore the possibilities afforded two people who desire to explore a connection. After answering their e-mail, you get a response back. One thing leads to another and the two of you opt to meet in real time. This is where things get interesting. ...


7 Comments, 209 Views, 80 Votes ,5.05 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Re: "I want to be in Control!"   9/28/2004

If you want to be in control, first you must have control over yourself. As the recipient of one of your name calling smarmy commented letters after being honestly and upfront told that things would not click, you replied with a barrage of insulting comments. He that cannot control himself and was previously told under no uncertain terms not to waste my time and theirs, should perhaps ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Re: "I want to be in Control!"   9/28/2004

If you want to be in control, first you must have control over yourself. As the recipient of one of your name calling smarmy commented letters after being honestly and upfront told that things would not click, you replied with a barrage of insulting comments. He that cannot control himself and was previously told under no uncertain terms not to waste my time and theirs, should perhaps ...


3 Comments, 146 Views, 43 Votes ,8.15 Score
withatwist8 57 M
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why women date jerks   9/22/2004

can anyone tell me why breath taking ladys go after the jerks who treat them like trash ? anyone


3 Comments, 100 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
sirhalley 65 M
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Can a dream become true   9/20/2004

Well I am trying to date some asian woman or shemale cause my dream is own a collared asian slave but seems that also if I am pone to recive as guest or I can wait longer periods before ask her to travel to Italy nobody is interested.... <br> can it be a real culture difference or is juts a wrong approach? I wish have some suggestion thank's to all of you especially to who have ...


1 Comments, 194 Views, 22 Votes ,0.24 Score
Aplayisaplay 55 F
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I've got balls   9/18/2004

Alt has been such a sheer pleasure for me to get my jellies off. Most thrill seekers here don’t even know what the BDSM acronym stands for! I have been on a couple of dates and the most impressive comment I got was…I like you because you have the balls to say what you want done to you. I’ve only said a couple of sentences before I was asked to stop because I was giving him a hard on. ...


2 Comments, 230 Views, 26 Votes ,4.10 Score
JakBlak 62 M
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I Want To Be In Control!   9/15/2004

I want or too vanilla for some. I believe there is a Lady on this a relationship where My Woman knows her place & is willing to get in it. I guess that's just plain old-fashioned site for me, that is more "the Lady in the streets" scenario and she knows who she belongs to and is loyal & good opinion is a strong one. obedient also. So I don't think anyone is really trying to put off ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 17 Votes ,0.86 Score
puppet_maser 47 M
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croatian girls   9/11/2004

croatian girls from all over the world should contact me, I, m alfa and omega of BDSM in all of Balcans


0 Comments, 58 Views, 18 Votes
facedownarseup 59 M
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Re: Advice to achieve slavery   9/5/2004

Before you get married ... <br> You owe it to yourself and to your future mate to be as open and honest about what you expect sexually and otherwise in your marriage. Don't "wait" for someone to get the hint, or sit on the sidelines and "hope" some piece of magic happens and SUDDENLY your mate gets it - TELL THEM NOW. <br> If you want to be his slave and serve him in ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 26 Votes ,7.99 Score
femmeplay101 42 T
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tv looking for a girlfriend/playmate   9/5/2004

are there any girls interested in fooling around with a cute tv?


2 Comments, 99 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
taketurns3412 79 M
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If U want her to fall in luv!   9/2/2004

IF U WANT HER TO FALL IN LOVE… <br> I WAS TAUGHT THIS WHEN I WAS IN THE USAF THE GUY WHO TAUGHT IT TO ME(MIKE GOODMAN) LACKED 1 SEMESTER OF HAVING HIS B.A. IN PSYCH. MIKE WAS FROM NY CITY AND IMPRESSED THE HELL OUT OF A DAVENPORT IA LIKE ME. HE HAD BEEN A “SPOTTER†FOR A GAMBLING PLACE IN THE CITY AND THE BOY COULD MAKE A DECK OF CARDS TALK. ON VARIOUS OCCASIONS I SAW ...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 29 Votes ,3.74 Score
Cocosilk69 50 F
6 Articles
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Re: If one having a slight disibilaty prevent a relationship   8/30/2004

I have a disability (above-the-knee amputation), but I have managed to meet people who are kind, caring, compassionate and couldn’t care less if I had one leg or three. You just have to be patient and you will find the mate who will overlook your minor incapability’s. Being honest up front about your disability is important, as I have learned from a previous experience that not being ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 19 Votes ,7.34 Score
ladytuaca 50 F
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Please READ profiles BEFORE responding!!!   8/30/2004

When someone is looking for something or some you are NOT, it is not personal. It is just not YOU that they desire. They are also likely NOT what you desire. Do you really want someone who wants someone else and NOT you? <br> So please read profiles, before responding. Not doing so is extremely rude, self-centered, and disrespectful! Is that really the first impression you ...


0 Comments, 112 Views, 65 Votes ,6.99 Score
Boytoy335 39 M
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First Date questions   8/18/2004

When meeting someone on this website, or others like it; How does it differ from say a date with a stranger? <br> I've let to meet someone face to face, but I keep thinking that I'm not going to be able to keep my mind on talking, insted I know a lot about this person both physically and sexually. <br> Anybody have an advice or stories?


1 Comments, 66 Views, 39 Votes ,5.52 Score