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je65pr 58 M
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Anyone else hate mixed messages?   1/11/2009

I met Karen just a few months after my divorce, about 2 1/2 years ago. She was the first woman I had a date with after the divorce, hell, the first woman I had been out with other than my wife, in 14 years.

I met her on another dating site, and we agreed to go out to lunch. When she walked into the restaurant, I was dumbstruck. Damn, she was gorgeous, 5'4", size 6, dark hair, and blue ...


4 Comments, 223 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
activebdsm1 50 M
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any submissive female in cairo?   11/1/2008

I am wondering if there is any female who is intrested to explore bdsm which i consider the dark side of any lady which is insde her but she did not discover yet . several females thinking that being submissive is something not healthy cause her master would be sadist . i wanna say that there r several ways and style in bdsm.


1 Comments, 109 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
kad20072 43 M
179 Articles
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10 Signs that you might get lucky!   4/9/2008

For many men, one of the most complicated things in the dating game is recognizing if a woman is interested. It is very easy to misinterpret a mere act of kindness as being sexually interested. Making out whether or not she is interested in getting to know you, or if you are close to “getting lucky” that evening can be confusing.

How can you tell when an intimate conversation with ...


0 Comments, 165 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
want2be1978 43 M
2 Articles
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Hey Ladies   1/27/2008

I never do it before.But all of us must try all, what can do us a plesure.I WANT TO TRY ALL......


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sloslaveboy 40 M
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any dominant Ladys in europe   1/14/2008

iwould like to speak with a dominant Lady who is ready to take her time to speak with me, while i cant find any dominant women near me i seek in all europe


0 Comments, 32 Views, 1 Votes
kad20072 43 M
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Dating in the age of the internet.   1/11/2008

I often find it funny that in today's day and age of the internet, how the social dynamic of meeting has changed dramatically and the differences just a few years can make. Gone are the days of going out to gathering places hoping to find someone that just might be there as well. In today's age of e-mail, cell phones, text messaging and social pages people have completely flipped the biology of ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
angelabrown 64 T
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switch   10/26/2007

steve and sam were watching tv late into the night sam put her head on to steves shoulders and spoke, we have an office party coming up and i wonderd if you wanted to go, its fancy dress and the theme is switch you no i dress as you and you dress as me it could be fun, steve didnt here sam as he was ingrossed in watching the football highlights on tv, okay he said without thinking, the next ...


0 Comments, 164 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
brian1232 54 M
2 Articles
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burlington vt tgirls   8/9/2007

i was looking for advice to start dating a tgirl or better yet i hope to meet on in vt.


2 Comments, 282 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
missprissis35 55 F
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Response to the money, sex, and sub issue   7/8/2007

I found your article very interesting but what I found more interesting is your claims of knowledge about women/females and the bottom/sub mind. You clearly only understand only two sub types ;”the players” or “ minded”. This is evidenced by your list of "non-desirables."

# Psychotic # Drug Addicts # Insecure # Abused as - do you know how to handle this? # Alcoholics # After a ...


4 Comments, 201 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
fxmaster 31 M
2 Articles
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looking for a kinky girl in nottingham   5/17/2007

i am looking for a kinky girl in nottingham and if you are up for some fun and up for new things th


0 Comments, 19 Views, 2 Votes
manchestermale05 37 M
11 Articles
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Fantasy: Initiation   3/23/2007

- - FANTASY - - FANTASY - - FANTASY - -
My mistress had arranged a small get together with some of her friends, two males and a female, to assist with her initiation of me into the household. She left early to meet her friends and I was instructed in her absence to place a bottle of wine and four glasses out on the coffee table and then stand facing the wall, in ...


0 Comments, 337 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
manchestermale05 37 M
11 Articles
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Fantasy: Initiation   3/23/2007

- - FANTASY - - FANTASY - - FANTASY - -
My mistress had arranged a small get together with some of her friends, two males and a female, to assist with her initiation of me into the household. She left early to meet her friends and I was instructed in her absence to place a bottle of wine and four glasses out on the coffee table and then stand facing the wall, in just my boxer shorts with my ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
CrystalBlaze 40 F
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Bad date, to try a second or not to try?   3/3/2007

I was recently on a date that I felt went fine. However, it has come to my conclusion that it did not go as well as I had thought, at least not from the other end. This is based upon the fact that he never called back and never replied to my calls...which did not occur until after 1 week from the first date. Not to know if I had done something wrong so that I may understand and learn from it is ...


4 Comments, 334 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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I don't understand...   1/27/2007

Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through an extremely ...


2 Comments, 303 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
manchestermale05 37 M
11 Articles
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Fantasy: A Good Milking   12/14/2006

A fantasy of mine:

I would be blindfolded and lead into a room. Safely guided away from walls and other such furniture, i would be forced to lie on my back.
The ground littered with soft cushions or pillows, that would mold my form and prevent me feeling the harshness of the floor beneath.
Still in darkness, still on back, once the cushions have ...


2 Comments, 355 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
mohar10 44 M
4 Articles
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The "Love Connection" of the '90's   12/9/2006

Gather your rosebuds out there, in the real world while you may, because tomorrow they will be dying!
It's so easy to think about, and indeed wish for Love! We will all admit that it is a wonderful and necessary thing, yet who here agrees on just what it is. Not I, so I'm going to concentrate on the easy question.
I never did like the concept of computer dating or ...


1 Comments, 233 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
waitingforUmytop 72 M
10 Articles
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How do you get a first date   10/28/2006

Help! I must be doing something wrong! I have had a lot of offers but when it comes down to the meeting they never show up. Could it be that I insist on my home as the first meeting place.


8 Comments, 1373 Views, 23 Votes ,3.24 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
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Timid touch ... street training young master   9/29/2006

Timid Touch
Your confidence is what realy does it , your inner self I have said many times is the most important aspect . Not your looks not the bait you own ( your car , house job etc) the bait does a great job attracting the girls but will not keep them if the inner you is not the male herr inner self realy needs . And girls need a confident male , over and over that aspect is ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
sex_demon96 43 M
5 Articles
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Dating your ex, picking up where u left off?   9/21/2006

I you begin to see an ex-gf again, do you think it's implied that you pick up where you left off sexually? Or do you think that things should be taken slow as if meeting for the first time?
Granted a lot of relationships are built on one-night-stands in the first place, in that case would you WANT to take things slower the second time round?


3 Comments, 73 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
sex_demon96 43 M
5 Articles
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Ex's new bf rubbing it in.   9/20/2006

So I guess this is sort of a question for the ladies, maybe even the guys to.
I've recently had a very nasty breakup with a girlfriend of a year or so. Things ended very bitterly. It's now a couple weeks later. We haven't spoken and we seem to have gotten on with our lives. I now get text messages from my ex-girlfriends new bf bragging how he's banging my ex gf in an attempt to ...


1 Comments, 364 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
ashanty10002 43 F
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i need am man who cares   9/10/2006

i need a man who cares alot a man that is generous hardworkin g and friendly and kind hearthed


4 Comments, 230 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
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~NICE TRY ~ 5 FT 10 1/2 INCHES OF HUNCH   8/30/2006

~~ Nice Try ~~ 5 foot 10 & ½ inches of hunch
Hunch , the message of your inner animal , the sub conciuos mind speaking based on all that info it gathers about your surroundings … all the things you at your thinking level of mind yu do not see or understand !! as true hunch is just the feeling! It has not words , , if you feel or thnk about words than it is not true hunch , ...


0 Comments, 310 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
cuminme702 53 M
3 Articles
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Where else can meet asian tv's/ts's or cd's in the uk?   8/5/2006

Does anybody know of somewhere either online or in person where i can meet asian/oriental ts's/tv's or cd's in the uk? There doesn't seem to be too mmany on this site! I welcome any advice anybody may have. Many thanks.


2 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Sirus20x6 40 M
2 Articles
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Where are the scar fetishists?   8/2/2006

I am a 21 year old who has been in a few D/S relationships as a Dom after moving away from vanilla, and I have to wonder where all the scar fetishists are? Well besides Germany and Cali. You would think that me being so close to Chicago I could find a good female sub/slave or maybe even a switch who wasn't so put off by them.


1 Comments, 508 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
B1GPKR 33 M
2 Articles
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busty babes enter   8/1/2006

im looking to meet a sexy busty babe


0 Comments, 117 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
pinkpanties4u 68 T
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Why can,t I find a sexual partner?   7/11/2006

I have been in Phoenix all of my sexual days, and have been sexually addicted since before I new about G spot, or anal sex.When I firt remember my sex antics were at the dinner table I would prop my fore arms flat on the table were I could slitly liuft my bottom ever so slightly off the chair.Once at this poinnt I would slowly rythymaticaly sway my thighs, round and round then side to side. ...


0 Comments, 551 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
lewy6969 47 M
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what women really want ?   7/6/2006

a question to most mens thought .what do women really want , ladies please answer lots of responces from a variety of different ladies will give clueless men some ideas


1 Comments, 224 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
abdls 37 M
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Finding a woman whose interested in trying diapers   6/25/2006

If your not kinky, your just plain and
boring. Spice up your sex life with
diapers!
If your a girl who wants a man whose loving, caring, devoted, kinky, romantic, has a positive future , and would enjoy being diapered together then welcome, im Kevin, and I might just be ur man. I'll love u, cherish u, and if u liked, diaper u forever.


1 Comments, 138 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
dom153 75 M
3 Articles
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meeting place   6/20/2006

When ever I have met folk from alt I have always tried to meet in a safe place but they dont seem to worry where they meet folk never seem to be put off by meeting in car parks why so trusting?


1 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
TheRookie1985 38 M
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Selfish or Performance Preference   6/19/2006

Okay, I’m a 21 yr old male and I’ve always wanted to engage in a 3some with a sexy little woman and a she-male, to experience the fantasy of being with two women at the same time. While also having the pleasure of DP-ing a woman to orgasm, but here is my concern with this fantasy I hope to one-day par take in.
I love to eat pussy, giving oral pleasure is something that I feel ...


0 Comments, 161 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score